Momwe mungapangire agalu awiri mabwenzi?

The socialization wa galu, kuphatikizapo kulowetsamo zofunika kulankhulana luso ndi agalu ena, ndi chinthu chofunika kwambiri pa kulera ndi kulera, ndi chidwi kwambiri ayenera kulipira kwa izi. Ngati m'tsogolo mwiniwake akukonzekera kupeza galu wachiwiri kapena adzipeza kuti, pazifukwa zina, galu wina angawonekere m'nyumba, ndiye kuti zomwe galuyo amapeza ndi khalidwe loyenera loikidwa mmenemo zidzathandiza. kukhazikitsa maubwenzi opanda mikangano. Izi zidzathetsa nkhanza, mpikisano, mantha, kusatetezeka ndi makhalidwe ena osayenera omwe chiweto chingasonyeze.

Koyambira?

Muyenera kuyamba ndi galu. Ndi mu ubwana umene maziko a chikhalidwe cha anthu amaikidwa ndipo chidziwitso cholankhulana ndi achibale chimayikidwa. Mukayamba kutengera mwana wagalu wanu kunja, yesetsani kuonetsetsa kuti kuyenda sikungoyang'anira zosowa zachilengedwe komanso kuyenda kosavuta, komanso kumaphatikizapo kusewera ndi anzanu kapena agalu okhulupirika akale. Tengani mwana wagalu ndi gulu la anzanu ndikuyesera kukonza msonkhano nawo pakuyenda nthawi zambiri momwe mungathere, mwachitsanzo, povomereza nthawi yoyenda ndi eni ake agalu. Mukamachita izi mwachangu, mwana wanuyo amayamba kukhala ndi luso lolankhulana lomwe amafunikira, ndipo mtsogolomu sadzawona agalu ena ngati chinthu chomenyera nkhondo kapena, mosiyana, amawonetsa mantha komanso kusatetezeka.

Kachiwiri, m'pofunika kuonetsetsa kuti kuyenda ndi kulankhulana ndi agalu ena si kukhala kupikisana ndi kuyesa kuthetsa zinthu pa ndewu.

Limbikitsani kwambiri zolinga za galu wanu kuti ayambitse mikangano ndipo musalole kutero muzochitika zilizonse.

Eni ake ambiri amakhulupirira kuti kusonyeza mphamvu kuchokera kwa galu kapena galu wamng'ono ndi chinthu chabwino chomwe chimathandiza chiweto kuti chikhale cholimba komanso chochititsa mantha m'tsogolomu. Uku ndikulakwitsa, ndipo ndizovuta kwambiri. The indulgences anasonyeza khalidwe la galu kumapangitsanso kuti amakula pugnacious, aukali ndi sanali kukhudzana ndi nyama zina, amene, ndithudi, zimakhala zovuta kuyenda ndi kulankhula ndi nyama zina.

Kutengera zomwe tafotokozazi, kulumikizana kwina kwa galu wanu ndi nyama zina sikungayambitse vuto lililonse kwa inu kapena chiweto chanu. Komabe, mkhalidwe ukhoza kuchitika pamene galu wina yemwe wawonekera m'nyumbayo sakuyanjana mokwanira ndipo ali kutali ndi kukhazikitsidwa mwamtendere. Ziyenera kumveka zomwe ziyenera kuchitika pankhaniyi ndi momwe mungapangire agalu awiri kukhala mabwenzi kapena, osachepera, kukhazikitsa moyo wawo wopanda mikangano.

Tiyeni tione zitsanzo zina:

1. Galu wamkulu ndi mwana wagalu yemwe anawonekera m'nyumba

Kwa agalu akuluakulu, mwachibadwa, pali zoletsedwa - sungakhumudwitse ana agalu. Ichi ndi khalidwe lodziwika bwino la majini, ndipo, monga lamulo, palibe mavuto apadera poyankhulana pakati pa galu wamkulu ndi mwana wagalu. Komabe, kutengapo mbali kwa eni ake pakukhazikitsa ubale wabwino ndikofunikira.

Ndi chiyani:

• Mukabweretsa kagaluyo m’nyumba, tsitsani pansi ndipo galu wamkuluyo azimufwenkha mosamala komanso mosamala. Yang'anani momwe galu amachitira ndipo musalole kuti achitepo kanthu pokhudzana ndi galuyo (kuyesa kuluma, kuyambitsa masewera, kuuwa kapena kubuula). Izi zikhoza kuopseza galuyo ndi kusokoneza ubale wake wamtsogolo ndi galu wamkulu. Lekani zochita zosafunikira za munthu wakale ndi chiletso;
• Chisamaliro cha mwini wake kwa agalu onse awiri chiyenera kugawidwa mofanana. Kusamala kwambiri kwa galu kungayambitse nsanje kwa galu wamkulu kapena kuyesa kusintha mkhalidwewo. Chotsatira chake, galuyo akhoza kuwonedwa ndi galu wamkulu ngati mpikisano wa ubwino wake;
• Poyamba, dyetsani agalu padera, kuti, kachiwiri, musapangitse kumverera kwa mpikisano ndi chikhumbo chokhala ndi chidutswa cha tastier;
• Yang'anirani khalidwe la galu wanu ndipo musamulole kuti awonetsere khalidwe la galu wamkulu lomwe limamuchititsa nkhanza kapena kusakhutira. Patulani kagalu yemwe amaseweredwa komanso wotengeka kwakanthawi ndikukhazika mtima pansi;
• Mayendedwe abwino ndi ntchito. Pakuyenda, mwana wagalu mwamsanga ndi mwachangu amatengera khalidwe la galu wamkulu, amene ali ndi zotsatira zabwino pa kulera kwake ndi kupeza zinachitikira moyo. Zowona, chinthu chimodzi ndi chofunikira: galu wamkulu ayenera kuphunzitsidwa bwino ndikuchita momwe mukufunira, osati iye;
• Ndipo otsiriza. Mu ubale uliwonse pakati pa agalu, mwiniwake amakhalabe wotsutsana ndi mphunzitsi. Zochita zanu zilizonse ndi kulamula kwanu, chifukwa cha ubale wolakwika pakati pa agalu, ziyenera kuchitidwa bwino - iyi ndiye chinsinsi cha kukhalapo kwa galu wopanda mikangano (ndipo pambuyo pake galu) ndi galu wamkulu.

2. Agalu awiri akuluakulu, mmodzi mwa iwo ndi oyamba kumene

Zomwe zili ndi agalu awiri akuluakulu ndizovuta kwambiri, chifukwa aliyense wa iwo akhoza kutenga mpikisano. Sipadzakhala zovuta ngati agalu aleredwa m'njira yoyenera ndipo samadziwika ndi ziwonetsero zotsutsana. Mayesero amasonyeza kuti pali awiri awiri otere.

Zoyenera kuchita:

• Adziwitseni agalu panja musanalowe m'nyumba. Ndikoyenera kukonza misonkhano ingapo ndikuyang'anitsitsa momwe agaluwo adzachitira. Msewu umayika zinyama pamtunda wofanana, koma maonekedwe a mlendo m'dera lake angayambitse chigamulo chachikulu kuchokera kwa galu wakale, yemwe amawopseza kuti ayambe kumenyana;
• Agalu sayenera kuloledwa kulamulirana. Tetezani galu wofookayo ndipo mulange mwamphamvu womenyayo.

  M'nyumba, mutu ndi mwiniwake, choncho ndi inu nokha mukhoza kulola agalu chinachake, ndikuletsa chinachake.

  Ngati galu amakuwonani ngati mwiniwake wovomerezeka, sipadzakhala mavuto ndi maonekedwe a galu wachiwiri m'nyumba;

• Onetsani chidwi chofanana kwa wobwera kumene ndi wakale, kuti musadzutse malingaliro ansanje ndi mpikisano;
• Dyetsani agalu padera poyamba;
• Kusunga agalu m'zipinda zosiyanasiyana kapena malo kuchokera ku lingaliro la kukhazikitsa ubale wolondola pakati pawo sapereka zotsatira zomwe ankafuna, choncho yesetsani kusunga kulankhulana kwa agalu nthawi zambiri momwe mungathere ndikusintha khalidwe lawo nthawi;
• Simuyenera kupeza galu wachiwiri ngati simuli otsimikiza za chikoka chanu pa chiweto. Kugonjera kosakayika kwa chiweto chanu kudzakulolani kukhazikitsa ubale wabwino ndi nyama zina m'nyumba. Palibe njira ina.

November 7, 2017

Zosinthidwa: Disembala 21, 2017