Kodi kuweta mphaka?

Aigupto ankaweta amphaka zaka 5-6 zapitazo. Ndipo ngakhale Aigupto asanakhalepo, izi zidachitika ndi anthu a ku Turkey ndi Krete. Sitidzadziwanso kuti ndi liti komanso ndani kwenikweni mphaka woyamba m'mbiri adasinthidwa, koma ndondomekoyi inayamba zaka 10 zapitazo.

Nanga n’chiyani chimatilepheretsa kubwereza zimene makolo athu anachita? Ndiko kulondola: palibe. Mosiyana ndi Aigupto, tili ndi zonse zomwe timafunikira pa izi: matani a chidziwitso m'mabuku ndi intaneti, akatswiri a maganizo a nyama, zoseweretsa ndi zakudya zabwino zomwe zingathandize kupambana mtima wa mlenje wapakhomo. Chinthu chachikulu ndi kuleza mtima.

Njira yoweta mphaka imatha kutenga milungu ingapo, kapena miyezi ingapo. Sizidzatero, koma zotsatira zake mudzapeza bwenzi lenileni, lachikondi. Kodi mwakonzeka kuthana ndi vutoli? Ndiye tiyeni!

Mphaka ndi wosavuta kuweta kuposa mphaka wamkulu. Chidwi chake chachibadwa chachibwana chidzakuthandizani. Kaya mphaka ndi wochenjera chotani nanga, chidwi chidzagonjetsa mantha. Mwanayo amazolowerana ndi mikhalidwe yatsopano, amaphunzira kulankhulana ndi achibale ake komanso amamva kuti ali kunyumba. Muyenera kungomupangira malo otetezeka ndikumupatsa nthawi yoti azolowere.

Ana amphaka safunika kupitilira milungu iwiri kuti azolowera malo atsopano ndi eni ake. Koma ngati mwanayo anali ndi vuto lolankhulana ndi anthu, zimatenga nthawi yambiri.

• Thandizo lanu lalikulu ndi kuleza mtima, zoseweretsa komanso zopatsa thanzi. Musayese nthawi yomweyo kutenga mphaka m'manja mwanu. Choyamba muyenera kupeza chidaliro chake ndikuwonetsetsa kuti abwera kudzakukondani.

• Konzani malo obisalapo: ikhoza kukhala nyumba yapadera yamphaka kapena bokosi lokhala ndi zofunda. Musaiwale kuika mbale yamadzi pafupi ndi izo!

• Pangani lamulo kuti musasokoneze mwana wa mphaka pamene akupumula m'malo mwake. Lolani mphaka "kukhala kunja" m'nyumba. Atadekha, adzapita kukaphunzira za dziko lozungulira.

• Kuti muyambe, ingokhalani m’chipinda chimodzi ndi mwana wa mphaka, lankhulani naye modekha, mum’patseko zinthu zabwino, ndi kumuchititsa masewerawo. Sikawirikawiri kuti mwana wa mphaka asakane kunyozedwa kapena mpira.

• Ngati mwanayo alumikizana, ndibwino. Ngati sichoncho, palibe vuto lalikulu, zisiyeni ndikuyesanso nthawi ina.

Malamulo oweta mphaka nthawi zambiri amakhala ofanana ndi amphaka wamkulu.

• Gawo 1. Konzani chipinda

Konzekerani nyumba yanu yachiweto chanu. Ikani chitetezo pamazenera ndi zitseko, chotsani zinthu zoopsa pansi ndi mashelefu, zingwe zotsekera ndi zitsulo.

Mphaka adzafunika nyumba yake: ikhoza kukhala bokosi losavuta ndi zofunda, bedi kapena nyumba yapadera ya amphaka. Ndi bwino kugula khola la ziweto. Mukhoza kuika nyumba, mbale, ndi thireyi mmenemo. Khola limathandiza kwambiri mu magawo oyambirira a maphunziro komanso m'tsogolomu. Mmenemo, chiweto chimakhala chotetezeka nthawi zonse.

Mphaka amamva bwino kwambiri ngati kuwala m'chipindako kwachepa komanso ngati kuli bata. Yesetsani kupanga malo omasuka komanso odekha.

• Gawo 2. Perekani nthawi yoti musinthe

Zimatenga nthawi yayitali bwanji kuti mphaka azolowere? Zonse zimadalira mphaka payekha. Nthawi zina zimangotenga maola ochepa, nthawi zina masiku angapo kapena masabata.

Mphaka apume mumtendere m'malo mwake. Osamutulutsa m'nyumba, musayese kumunyamula. Maola 3-4 oyambirira ndi bwino kuti musasokoneze mphaka nkomwe. Musiyeni yekha ndi yekha. Musaiwale kuika mbale ya madzi ndi tray mu chipinda.

Pambuyo pa maola 3-4, perekani mphaka kuti adye. Ndibwino kuti nthawi yomweyo abwere ku mbale ndikuyamba kudya pamaso panu. Koma ngati mphaka akuwopa, chokani m’chipindamo kwa kanthawi kuti adye yekha.

Musayang'ane mphaka m'maso, musayese "kuyang'ana" pa izo. Izi zidzatembenuza chiweto kuti chitsutsane nanu.

• Gawo 3 Chotsani Contacts

Nyumba yatsopano imakhala yovutitsa chiweto. Kupsyinjika kwakukulu kumakakamizika kulankhulana ndi alendo ndi nyama.

Ngati n’kotheka, tetezani mphaka kuti asakumane ndi achibale ena. Choyamba, ayenera kuzolowera malo atsopano ndi munthu mmodzi - mwini wake.

• Gawo 4. Lankhulani koma osakhudza

Pang'onopang'ono khalani ndi nthawi yochulukirapo kuzungulira mphaka wanu. Osamugwira iye ngati sanakonzekere. Ingochitani bizinesi yanu ndipo nthawi yomweyo mulankhule modekha ndi mphaka. Ndipo inde, simuyenera kuyankhula. Gwirani ntchito pakompyuta kapena werengani buku kuti mphaka akuwoneni. Ntchito yanu ndikumuzolowera kudera lanu, kuwonetsa kuti simumuwopseza ndi chilichonse.

Yesetsani kusapanga phokoso kapena kusuntha mwadzidzidzi kuti musawopsyeze chiweto.

• Gawo 5. Sewerani ndikudalira

Mphaka akazolowera malo atsopano pang'ono, yesani kuti mulowe nawo mu masewerawo. Pezani teaser yapadera yokhala ndi nthenga zowuluka, mpira kapena zoseweretsa zokhala ndi catnip - ndikovuta kukana.

Ngati mphaka ayamba kusewera nthawi yomweyo, zabwino. Ngati sichoncho, yimitsani ntchitoyo kwakanthawi. Yesaninso pakadutsa masiku angapo.

Pa siteji yoweta, timalimbikitsa kuvala zovala za manja aatali kuti muteteze ku zokala zotheka.

• Gawo 6. Zakudya zokoma

Wothandizira wophunzitsira mphaka wothandiza kwambiri ndiwabwino. Chinthu chachikulu ndi chakuti ndizothandiza: panthawi yovutayi, mavuto a m'mimba adzakhala osayenerera kwambiri. Choncho, ndi bwino kugula amphaka apadera oyenera.

Perekani mphaka wanu m'manja mwanu. Cholinga chathu ndi chakuti iye abwere kumbuyo kwake kuti adye naye. Nthawi zambiri amphaka amatenga nthawi yayitali kuti asankhe pa sitepe iyi, kenako amangotenga chakudya ndikuthawa. Poyamba, izi ndizabwino kwambiri! Koma kuti mutalikitse kukhudzana ndi chiweto chanu ndikuchizolowerani mwachangu, mutha kuchita chinyengo ndikugwiritsa ntchito zakumwa zamadzimadzi (monga zakumwa zamadzimadzi za Mnyams cream). Amphaka ngati madzi amachitira zambiri kuposa zouma zouma (kumbukirani momwe ziweto zimakonda kunyambita zakudya zamadzimadzi?). Kukongola kwanu kudzayenera kudikirira kuti munyambire zambiri kuchokera m'manja mwanu ndipo mudzalumikizana kwambiri.

Pamene mphaka akudya m'manja mwanu, modekha penyani izo. Lankhulani naye mofatsa. Osathamangira kumusisita.

• Gawo 7. Yambitsani dzanja 

Pang'onopang'ono tikuyamba gawo lalikulu la zoweta zathu. Tsopano ntchito yathu ndikudziwitsa mphaka ku zogwirira. Ndipo kachiwiri, chinthu chachikulu si kuthamangira!

Osafikira mphaka, osayesa kusisita. Ingoikani dzanja lanu pansi pafupi ndi mphaka. Mpatseni mwayi wobwera kudzanja lanu, kununkhiza, kupukuta. Ngati mphaka sakukwanira, mukhoza kuika chithandizo padzanja lanu. Sizinagwire ntchito? Palibe vuto. Yesaninso pakadutsa masiku angapo.

• 8: Imani bwino

Pokhapokha pakaphunzira kuyandikira dzanja lanu popanda mantha, mutha kuyesa kusisita!

Samalani kwambiri ndi zomwe mphaka wanu akuchita. Ngati wabwebweta ndi kubwebweta, musiyeni ndi kubwerera ku mfundo zakale. Lankhulani ndi mphaka patali kwa masiku angapo, ndiyeno yesaninso.

Khalani oleza mtima: palibe kukakamizidwa! Apo ayi, ntchito yonse idzapita pansi.

• Gawo 9. Tengani njira yoyenera

Kodi mphaka amalola kugonedwa? Zabwino kwambiri. Ndiye inu mukhoza chitani sitepe yotsatira ndi kuyesa kumunyamula. Kuti muchite izi, mofatsa mutembenuzire mphaka ndi nsana wake kwa inu ndikuyikweza pamalo awa, ikani pa mawondo anu, gwedezani. Ngati mphaka waphulika, musagwire mwamphamvu. Chonde yesaninso nthawi ina.

• Khwerero 10. Dzizolowereni kupesa

Chotsatira ndikuzolowera mphaka kupesa. Kusakaniza sikungosamalira tsitsi ndi khungu, komanso kukhudzana kosangalatsa ndi mwiniwake.

Ndikofunika kusankha chida chomwe chili choyenera mphaka wanu ndipo chidzapangitsa kuti ndondomekoyi ikhale yabwino. Ikhoza kukhala chisa-mittens, furminator, slicker burashi kapena chisa.

• Gawo 11: Pemphani chithandizo

Ngati masiku angapo adutsa, ndipo mphaka akadali wamanyazi kwambiri ndipo palibe kusintha kwa khalidwe lake, funsani katswiri wa zoopsychologist. Zidzakuthandizani kupeza njira yoyenera kwa chiweto chanu.

Zinyama zovulala zimatha kuchita mantha kwambiri ndi anthu, ndipo popanda kuthandizidwa ndi katswiri sangathe kupirira.

Tikukhulupirira kuti malingaliro athu adzakuthandizani kuwongolera mphaka ndikupeza mwa iye bwenzi lokhulupirika kwambiri, lodzipereka komanso loyamikira. Ndipo tikukuthokozani pasadakhale kuleza mtima kwanu ndi ntchito yanu, chifukwa cha chikondi chanu pa nyama. Chiweto chanu chili ndi mwayi kwambiri kukhala nanu!