Mmene Timaphunzitsira Agalu Makhalidwe “Oipa”

Nthawi zina ife, eni ake, mosadziwa, timaphunzitsa ziweto zathu khalidwe "loipa", ndiko kuti, timalimbitsa zochita zosafunikira. Chifukwa chiyani ndipo izi zimachitika bwanji?

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Nkhani yake ndi yakuti, agalu ndi zolengedwa zamagulu. Amakhudzidwa kwambiri osati ndi "mauthenga" a achibale awo okha, komanso chilankhulo cha anthu, komanso kamvekedwe ka mawu, ndipo amamvetsetsa bwino zizindikirozi kuposa mawu. Kuonjezera apo, agalu muzochitika zilizonse zosamvetsetseka amatsogoleredwa ndi munthu wofunikira - komanso kwa abwenzi athu amiyendo inayi, uyu ndi amene amamuona kuti ndi mwiniwake. Ndicho chifukwa chake khalidwe la mwiniwake, monga khalidwe la agalu ena, limakhudza mwachindunji khalidwe la galu wanu.

Ndizovuta kudziyang'anira, koma ngati muli ndi agalu awiri, mwachitsanzo, mukhoza kuwayang'ana. Ngati ziweto zili ochezeka, zimathamangira limodzi (ndipo mayendedwe nthawi zina amakhala ofanana), kugona ndi kusewera nthawi imodzi, ndipo ngati galu mmodzi akulira, wachiwiri amathandizira. Ndipo pamene kugwirizana kwakukulu, galu "amagwirizanitsa" khalidwe lake ndi galu kapena munthu wina.

Asayansi aku France a Charlotte Duranton ndi a Florence Gaunet adachita kafukufuku mu 2015 ndi 2017, zomwe zidapangitsa kuti izi zitheke:

1. Agalu ndi abwino powerenga zizindikiro za anthu.
2. Mkhalidwe wamaganizo wa mwiniwake umakhudza khalidwe la galu.
3. Khalidwe laumunthu (kuphatikizapo chidwi chake) limakhudza khalidwe la galu.
4. Galuyo amayang’ana mbali imodzi ndi mwini wake.
5. Muzochitika zilizonse zosamvetsetseka, galu amadikirira zizindikiro kuchokera kwa mwiniwake.

Kotero ngati pokonza khalidwe "loipa" la galu, mwiniwake sasintha khalidwe lake, simuyenera kuyembekezera kupambana.

Tengani vuto la khalidwe la agalu ngati mantha. Kodi munthu angaphunzitse bwanji galu kuchita mantha?

1. Kuchita mwankhawa kapena mwaulamuliro. Ngati mwiniwakeyo akuwopa chilichonse kapena sangathe kupereka chithandizo choyenera kwa galu, angakhale bwanji wolimba mtima?
2. Bweretsani kusayembekezereka, chisokonezo m'moyo wa galu ndikumulanga. Kusayembekezereka ndi chilango ndi njira yabwino kwambiri yochotsera galu kudzidalira komanso chitetezo cha dziko lozungulira.
3. Kulimbitsa mantha mosadziwa (mwachitsanzo, kukumbatira galu pamene akuwopa, kapena kumuuza ndi mawu achikondi kuti: “Chabwino, iwe. galu wabwino, musachite mantha”).

Khalidwe “loipa” limalimba pamene mwini galuyo akulankhula ndi galuyo mwachikondi ndi kumunyengerera pogwiritsira ntchito zizindikiro za khalidwe lolondola “Chabwino, iwe galu wabwinochifukwa chiyani ukuchita izi?" kapena pamene galu apeza zomwe akufunikira chifukwa cha zochita zake (mwachitsanzo, chidwi cha mwiniwake kapena chidutswa cha tebulo).

Khalidwe losalimbikitsidwa limatha. Choncho, ndikofunika kwambiri kuti mwiniwake asalimbikitse khalidwe "loipa", ndipo nthawi zonse, osati nthawi ndi nthawi - pambuyo pake, kulimbikitsana kosinthika kumakhala kothandiza kwambiri kuposa nthawi zonse. 

Anthu ambiri amaganiza kuti kulola galu zomwe nthawi zonse zimaletsedwa, kamodzi, sikupweteka. Koma galuyo samamvetsa mfundo imeneyi. Kusasinthasintha kumafunika kwa iye. Ndipo zomwe sizimaletsedwa nthawi zonse zimaloledwa.

Momwe khalidwe la agalu "loipa" limasonyezedwa nthawi zambiri zimadalira mwiniwake - pa luso lake lophunzitsa chiweto, chidziwitso m'munda wa maganizo a galu ndi njira zomwe amasankha.

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