Ngati mphaka wagwa ndi kuluma

Mwachitsanzo, mphindi zingapo zapitazo, kamwana kamphaka kanatopa pang'onopang'ono kwinaku mukumukanda kuseri kwa khutu, ndipo mwadzidzidzi anaitenga ndikuigwira ndi zikhadabo zakuthwa m'dzanja la mwini wake! Ndipo palinso zochitika zochititsa chidwi kwambiri pamene mwana wa mphaka asankha kutenga phazi la mwini wake kupita kumtengo, ndipo, popanda kudzichepetsa kwambiri, amayesetsa kukwerapo. Ndipo munthu akhoza kuseka pa izi, ngati mano ndi zikhadabo za mphaka zikanakhala zopanda vuto. M'zochita, khalidwe la mwanayo likuwonetsedwa muzokopa zochititsa chidwi ndi zizindikiro zoluma pa thupi la mwiniwake wokwiya. Chabwino, wolandila alendo, kuphatikiza apo, amayenera kusungirako zothina! Ndiye nchiyani chomwe chimapangitsa mngelo wonyezimira kukhala wosokoneza nthawi ndi nthawi komanso momwe angachitire ndi khalidwe lotere?

Si zachilendo kuti ana amphaka amaluma ndi kukanda akapanikizika. Mwinamwake mwanayo anali kuvutika kuyenda, kapena mukuswa malo ake enieni. Kapenanso m’nyumba muli zinthu zokwiyitsa zomwe zimalepheretsa mphaka kukhala ndi moyo wabwino. Kapenanso, chiwetocho chikhoza kuchitira nsanje mwiniwake wa ziweto zina, kukangana ndi anansi amchira, ndikuchitapo kanthu mwamphamvu ndi fungo lachilendo la anthu ena. Zomwe zimayambitsa kupsinjika ndizosiyana, ndipo ntchito ya mwiniwake watcheru ndikumvetsetsa ndikuchotsa zomwe zimayambitsa khalidwe laukali la mwanayo.

Kuonjezera apo, nyama zimachita zinthu mwaukali ngati chinachake chizipweteka. Koma, monga lamulo, matendawa amatsagana ndi zizindikiro zina, ndipo chithandizo chanthawi yake chimathandiza kuthana ndi vutoli.

Komabe, nthawi zambiri, mphaka zimaluma ndi kukanda pamasewera. Padziko lonse lapansi ndizovuta kupeza cholengedwa champhamvu komanso chachangu kuposa mphaka. Nthawi zonse amafuna kusuntha, kuthamanga ndi kulumpha, kufufuza dziko ndi ... kuthamangitsa nyama! Ndipo kupanga kotani komwe kungakhale munyumba yamzinda? - Ndiko kulondola, dzanja la mwiniwake, chifukwa nthawi zambiri limawalira pamaso pa muzzle wofuna kudziwa. Kapena mwendo womwe umatuluka pansi pa bulangeti pogona ndipo ... umayambitsa kugwirizana ndi makoswe akusuzumira mu mink!

Mwachidule, mphaka wanu akukusakani! Ndipo mumangolimbitsa luso ili mwa iye, ndikuchotsa mwamphamvu mkono kapena mwendo pamene mukuukira, chifukwa umu ndi momwe nyama zimakhalira. Koma ngati muchita khama ndipo musataye dzanja lanu pamene mphaka ayamba kuluma, koma, m'malo mwake, asunthire pafupi ndi mphaka, adzadabwa kwambiri ndipo, mwinamwake, adzasiya ntchito yake.

Wothandizira wanu wina ndi zoseweretsa zosiyanasiyana. Lolani mphaka wokangalika akhale ndi zambiri kuti asatope. Mpatseni mwana wanu zoseweretsa zomwe angathe kusewera nazo yekha, ndi zoseweretsa zamasewera ophatikizana. Ana amphaka amakonda kuseka, ndipo inu nokha mudzakhala osangalala kwambiri pokomera pakamwa ndi m'mimba mwa khanda loseketsa. Koma kugwiritsa ntchito dzanja lanu ngati teaser, kachiwiri, sikuvomerezeka. Ndipotu, ngati mwana wa mphaka aphunzira kuluma dzanja lanu pamasewera omwe munayambitsa, sangamvetse chifukwa chake simungachite chimodzimodzi mukagona kapena mukadya chakudya cham'mawa.

Monga zida zolemetsa, gwiritsani ntchito botolo lopopera ndi madzi opanda kanthu. Mwanayo akangoluma kapena kukanda, muwaza madzi pankhope pake, koma panthawi yomwe akuchita bwino. Ngati, mutatha kulumidwa, muthamangira m'chipinda chotsatira ndikuyang'ana atomizer kwa mphindi zisanu, ndipo pokhapo mutabwezera, mwana wa mphaka sangamvetse chifukwa chake analangidwa. Zachidziwikire, ndi njira yophunzirira iyi, muyenera kuyenda mozungulira ndi botolo lopopera pachifuwa chanu kwa masiku angapo, koma iyi ndi muyeso wothandiza komanso wothandiza.

Nthawi zina, kunyalanyaza kumathandiza kulimbana ndi chizolowezi chosasangalatsa cha mphaka. Ngati mphaka wakuluma kapena kukukanda, imirirani ndi kutuluka m'chipindamo, kusiya mwanayo yekha. Mwanayo akamvetsa zotsatira za zochita zake “zopanda vuto,” amasiya kuchita zimenezi. Koma mu nkhani iyi, mukhoza kupeza zotsatira kuyembekezera kokha ngati analeredwa mwadongosolo.  

Mwachidule, ndikufuna kuzindikira kuti mosasamala kanthu za chifukwa cha khalidwe loipali, mwana wa mphaka amavulaza eni ake mosadziwa, chifukwa sadziwa ngakhale momwe angakhalire ndi anthu. Machitidwe amakhalidwe amaikidwa m'miyezi yoyamba ya moyo, ndipo mwiniwake ndiye ayenera kufotokozera mwana wa mphaka momwe zingathere komanso momwe asamachitire zinthu zina. 

Zabwino zonse ndi kuleza mtima kwa inu pantchito yanu yophunzitsa!