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Momwe mungayambitsire mphaka wanu kwa mphaka wina

Ngati muli kale ndi mphaka m'nyumba mwanu, ndiye kuti amayamba kuyang'anira gawo lake pakatuluka mphaka. Mwachibadwa mumafuna kuti ziweto zanu zikhale mabwenzi. Koma ndizachilengedwenso kuti muyenera kuyesetsa kuti mukwaniritse izi - mphaka wanu woyamba atha kuwona mphaka ngati mdani, chifukwa mpaka pano adayang'anira nyumbayo ndikutaya chilichonse mwakufuna kwake.

Mudzafunika nthawi

Zidzakhala zosavuta kuti ziweto zanu zivomerezane ngati mutsatira malamulo osavuta. Choyamba, dziwitsani nyama pang'onopang'ono. Chachiwiri, onetsetsani kuti mphaka sakufuna chakudya ndi malo a mphaka wanu. Ndiye mwayi kuti ziweto zanu zidzagwirizana. Koma n’zotheka kuti sadzatha kupeza mabwenzi.

Mukasankha kuti nthawi yoti mukhale pachibwenzi yafika, konzekerani bwino ndikuwongolera izi. Musawasiye okha ndi wina ndi mzake. Sankhani mphindi pamene nyumba ili bata ndi bata. Popeza mphaka wanu sanathe kutha msinkhu, mphaka wanu sangamuone ngati woopseza kapena kupikisana naye. Kuopsa kwa mpikisano kumachepetsedwanso ngati muli ndi mphaka ndi mphaka. Koma musathamangire kuwabweretsa maso ndi maso. Alekanitseni pakadali pano, koma aloleni afufuze malo okhala wina ndi mnzake kuti azolowere kukhala ndi wina mnyumbamo.

Pang'ono za zonunkhira

Fungo ndilofunika kwambiri kwa amphaka. Mutha kugwiritsa ntchito izi: sakanizani fungo la ubweya wa mphaka wanu ndi fungo la nyumba yanu musanamudziwitse mphaka wanu watsopano. Mukhozanso kusakaniza fungo la mphaka ndi mphaka watsopano mwa kusisita mmodzi wa iwo, ndiye winayo, osasamba m'manja. Izi zipangitsa kuti ziweto zanu zizolowere mosavuta.

Mwana wa mphaka ayenera kukhala ndi malo akeake

Mutha kukhazikitsa cholembera kapena khola la mphaka wanu momwe mungayikire bedi lake, bokosi la zinyalala, ndi mbale yamadzi. Mwanjira imeneyi adzadzimva kukhala wosungika. Mphaka wowopsa akalowa m'chipinda choyambirira, mphaka wanu amamva kuti ndi wotetezedwa m'khomamo ndipo amatha kumuwona. Kuchita zibwenzi kungatenge masiku angapo. Mukawona kuti nthawi yakwana, tsegulani kholalo ndikusiya mphaka atuluke yekha.

Palibe chitsimikizo kuti amphaka anu adzakhala mabwenzi apamtima; pamenepa, ubale wawo ukhale wokha. Pamapeto pake amphaka ambiri amaphunzira kulolerana.