khalidwe la ana agalu

Khalidwe labwino liyenera kuphunzitsidwa

Mwana wanu alibe luso lobadwa nalo kuti azichita bwino. Wowetayo atha kuphunzitsa galu wachimbudzi, koma momwe chiweto chanu chimakulira zili ndi inu. Ana agalu amaphunzira mofulumira, kotero mwamsanga mutangoyamba maphunziro, zimakhala bwino. Potsatira malamulo osavuta, mudzalimbitsa ubale wanu kwa zaka zambiri.  

Nthawi zonse perekani khalidwe labwino

Nthawi iliyonse mwana wanu akachita zabwino, mum'patse mphoto. Agalu a mibadwo yonse amayankha bwino ku mphotho monga kutamandidwa kapena kuchita. Ngati nthawi zonse mumapereka mphoto kwa mwana wagalu chifukwa cha khalidwe labwino, adzapitiriza kuyesa "kukhala galu wabwino" m'tsogolomu. Komabe, nthawiyi ndi yofunika kwambiri pano - mphotho iyenera kutsatira mkati mwa masekondi angapo pambuyo pa ntchito yabwino, mwinamwake mwana wagaluyo angagwirizane ndi khalidwe lina.

Khalidwe Loipa: Kuchenjeza Kapena Kunyalanyaza?

Ndipotu muyenera kuchita zonse ziwiri.

Mwachitsanzo, talingalirani chikhumbo chofuna kutafuna chinachake. Izi ndi zomwe muyenera kuyembekezera kuchokera kwa mwana wanu chifukwa ndi gawo la machitidwe ake ofufuza. Zifukwa za mchitidwewu zitha kukhala zosiyana: kuyambira kunyong'onyeka ndi meno mpaka kupsinjika yokhala nokha kunyumba. Zinthu zomwe timakonda kwambiri zomwe ana agalu amakonda kutafuna ndi monga mapilo, nsapato, ziwiya zosiyanasiyana (mwachitsanzo, miyendo yapampando.), Ndikofunikira kufotokozera mwana wagalu zomwe angasewere ndi zomwe sangafune. Galuyo sadziwa chibadwireni kuti sayenera kukhudza ma slippers a nyumba yanu.

Kumbali ina, m'masabata angapo oyamba muyenera kuchepetsa mwayi wake wopita kumalo omwe angawononge, komano, mwana wanu ayenera kukhala ndi zoseweretsa zake zomwe amatha kutafuna. Ngati amasewera ndi zidole zake, mutamande ndikulimbikitsa khalidweli m'njira iliyonse.

Koma bwanji ngati ayamba kutafuna zomwe sanayenera kutero? Musanyalanyaze izo. Chinthu chabwino kuchita ndikunyalanyaza khalidwe “loipa”: osalalata, osalanga, osakwiyitsa. Ingoyerekezerani kuti galu wanu kulibe ndipo posachedwapa azindikira chomwe chalakwika.

Nthawi zina muyenera kunyalanyaza lamulo la "kunyalanyaza"

Pali nthawi zina pamene kunyalanyaza khalidwe “loipa” la mwana wanu kumakhala koopsa. Mwachitsanzo, mungapeze chiweto chanu chikutafuna waya wamagetsi wamoyo. Sakudziwa kuti ndizowopsa kapena "zolakwika" - muyenera kusiya nthawi yomweyo kunena kuti "ayi". Osamukalipira kapena kumulalatira—kunena kuti “ayi” mwachidule kuyenera kukhala kokwanira kuti amvetsere chidwi chake. Akasiya, m’yamikireni ndi kum’chitira zabwino.

Musalole makungwa kukuchititsani misala

Kodi mukudziwa kuti ana agalu onse, akafika miyezi 6-7, kuyamba kuteteza gawo? Kotero, izi ndizo. Ndipo eni ake omwe sadziwa za nkhaniyi ndikulimbikitsa ziweto zawo kuti aziwombera amatha kukhala ndi galu yemwe amawombera mpata uliwonse - ndipo sikungatheke kuthana nawo pambuyo pake.

Choncho ngati mukufuna moyo wabata, wamtendere, musalimbikitse galu wanu kuuwa. Izi sizikutanthauza kuti sadzalabadira ziwopsezo zazikulu - amangochita moyenera ndipo simudzayenera kumuuza chilichonse. Ndipo chonde, musamalimbikitse kuuwa kosangalatsa. Galu wanu akhoza kuuwa ndi chisangalalo poyembekezera kuyenda. Pamenepa, imani chilili ndi kunyalanyaza iye. Atangoima, pitirizani kukonzekera ulendo.