Kusewera kotetezeka kwa mwana wokhala ndi mphaka

Amphaka ndi ana samawoneka ngati banja langwiro. Koma mukhoza kuphunzitsa ana anu momwe angakhalire ndi mphaka ndikuwathandiza kuti azigwirizana ndi bwenzi lawo laubweya. Ngakhale amphaka onse amakonda kukhala okha nthawi ndi nthawi (ndi ena nthawi zambiri kuposa ena), amakondanso kusewera. Kuti mupange masewera osangalatsa a mphaka wanu ndi ana anu, yambani kuyambira tsiku loyamba mwa kupatula nthawi yosewera limodzi ndi nthawi yosewera payekha ya ana ndi mphaka. Ngati aliyense wa iwo ali ndi nthawi yocheza ndi inu komanso wina ndi mnzake, mutha kupanga malo amtendere kwa aliyense.

Zochita siziyenera kutsutsana ndi mawu

Kusewera ndi mphaka ndikofunikira kwambiri kuti akhale wathanzi. Komabe, ngati muli ndi ana ang'onoang'ono, ntchitoyi ikhoza kukhala yovuta kwambiri. Choyamba, muyenera kusonyeza ana mwachitsanzo mmene bwino kusamalira nyama pa masewera. Ana amatsanzira makhalidwe, abwino ndi oipa, choncho yesetsani kusonyeza kufatsa, kukhudza mofatsa ndi kuyenda kosalala, kotetezeka. Thandizani ana anu kukhala ndi makhalidwe abwinowa pokumbukira kupereka mphoto kwa iwo ndi mphaka wanu panthawi yamtendere.

M'dziko labwino, zonse zimayenda bwino, koma zenizeni sizili choncho. Zinyama zimatha kupsa mtima msanga ngati zitakwiyitsidwa. Yang'anani chilankhulo cha chiweto chanu: idzatha kukuuzani kuti mphaka wakwiya, ngakhale isanayambe kulira kapena kukankha. Makutu a mphaka nthawi zambiri amaloza kutsogolo akakhala bata kapena okonzeka kusewera, koma ngati makutu ake aphwanyidwa kapena kubwerera m'mbuyo, amasangalala kwambiri kapena amachita mantha. Ngati tsitsi lake (makamaka pa mchira) likuima pamapeto kapena ngati akulowetsa mchira pansi pake, ingakhale nthawi yochokapo ndikumusiya yekha kwa kanthawi. Ngati muwona kuti chilankhulo cha mphaka wanu chasintha, ndi bwino kuti aliyense apite kwinakwake, ngati n'kotheka kumene mphaka sangawoneke. Mungayesere kusokoneza ana anu ndi zinthu zina. Perekani mphaka wanu nthawi yokhala yekha ndipo yesani kusewera naye mofatsa musanalole ana kuti amugwire.

Kuonjezera apo, ana nthawi zambiri amakonda kugwira ziweto ndi kuzikokera. Amphaka ndi zolengedwa zodziyimira pawokha ndipo sizikonda kunyamulidwa uku ndi uku, choncho onetsetsani kuti mphaka wanu ndi wodekha mukalola mwana wanu kuti amunyamule. Ngati ali nuzzling ndi purring, iye mwina akusangalala kukhudzana kwambiri, koma ngati iye squirming kuyesera kudzimasula yekha, ndi bwino kumusiya.

Ngati muwona kuti pamasewera amphaka amatha kukhala ndi nkhawa kuposa zosangalatsa, penyani iye. Mwina amazolowera kwambiri masewera nthawi zina masana. Kuwonjezera pamenepo, masewera amakonzedwa bwino ana akamapuma komanso kudya. Ana anjala, otopa si anthu ocheza nawo bwino pa nyama ndi anthu!

Pangani mgwirizano womwe udzakhalapo kwa moyo wonse

Ubwenzi ndi nyama iliyonse sungathe kuchitika mwadzidzidzi. Yambani pang'ono: funsani ana anu kukhala mozungulira ndikuweta mphaka kwa mphindi zingapo poyamba. Mukapita kukasewera mwachangu, sankhani imodzi yomwe imasiya mtunda pakati pa ana ndi chiweto kuti musagwere mwangozi. Mukhoza kugwiritsa ntchito, mwachitsanzo, ndodo zazitali ndi mipira ikuluikulu. Yesetsani kupewa zoseŵeretsa zing’onozing’ono zimene ana angaike mosavuta m’kamwa mwawo. Chidole china chachikulu komanso chotsika mtengo chomwe amphaka ndi ana angakonde ndi bokosi losavuta la makatoni. Perekani chiweto mwayi wokwera m'bokosi palokha - musanayambe kuyang'ana mmbuyo, ana ndi mphaka adzasewera ndikubisala ndi kusangalala. Kuti mulimbitse maubwenzi, yang’anani ana anu ndi mphaka pamene akuseŵera ndi kuwafupa akakhala ndi makhalidwe abwino.

Potsogolera chitsanzo komanso moleza mtima, mukhoza kuonetsetsa kuti ana anu akuchitira bwino mphaka pamasewera ndipo musawakhumudwitse. M’kupita kwa nthaŵi, angafunenso kuseŵera ndi makanda anu. Ubwenzi pakati pa amphaka ndi ana ndi chinthu chodabwitsa chomwe chimatha kupyolera muunyamata ndi kupitirira, choncho sangalalani ndi mphindi iliyonse!