Kodi ndipeze mphaka wachiwiri?

Ngati agalu akusowa kwambiri kulankhulana, njira yotereyi imadziwonetsera yokha, ndiye chochita ndi amphaka? Nthawi zambiri amakhala odziyimira pawokha ndipo samawonetsa zisonyezo zilizonse zotopetsa ali okha. Inde, palibe amene angapereke yankho lotsimikizika ku funso ngati kuli koyenera kupeza mphaka wachiwiri.

Choyamba, mwiniwake aliyense ayenera kupenda ubwino ndi kuipa kwake. Kuphatikiza pa chisangalalo chowirikiza, ziweto ziwiri zidzabweretsa kufunika kowirikiza kawiri tsiku lililonse kuyeretsa ndi kudyetsa. Chachiwiri, ngati kupanga abwenzi amphaka kulephera, mwiniwake adzakhala nthawi zonse woweruza mikangano yawo, amene amasankha zochepa kwambiri otukuka kuposa agalu omwewo. Chachitatu, zambiri zimadalira chikhalidwe cha ziweto zomwe zimakhala kale m'nyumba. Ngati chiweto chikuwonetsa nkhanza kwa mtundu wake wonse, sizingakhale zolondola kukhala ndi chiweto chachiwiri. Ngati mphaka ndi wochezeka ndipo, komanso, m'njira zonse zotheka amapempha kulankhulana ndi munthu, ndiye kuti maonekedwe a wachiwiri akhoza kuonedwa ngati kuopseza kulankhulana kwake ndi mwiniwake. Ndipo zimenezi zidzachititsa nsanje. Nsanje idzayambitsa chiwawa, ndipo sichidzagwira ntchito nthawi yomweyo kupanga mabwenzi ndi ziweto. Koma zosiyana ndizothekanso: nyama yabata imakhala yoponderezedwa kwambiri ngati zikhalidwe za watsopano ndi wakale sizikugwirizana.

Kuonjezera apo, amphaka amadziwika kuti amamenya nkhondo zachiwawa kwambiri kuti azilamulira m'deralo, pamene amphaka amakhala okhulupirika, ngakhale pa estrus kapena mimba amatha kusonyeza chiwawa chachilendo kwa iwo.

Cholakwika chachikulu, malinga ndi obereketsa amphaka, ndikutenga mphaka m'nyumba momwe mphaka wokalamba amakhala kale. Pamsinkhu uwu, achinyamata okonda kusewera amayambitsa kusakhutira kwapang'onopang'ono: nyama yakale imafuna kukhala yokhayokha ndipo imafuna kuti mwiniwakeyo amve. Ngati, pokhala ndi mphaka wamkulu m'nyumba, mwaganiza zopeza yachiwiri, ndiye kuti zokonda ziyenera kuperekedwa kwa mphaka wamkulu, wodekha kale komanso ndi zizoloŵezi zake. Zoonadi, ubwenzi kuyambira pachiyambi sungathe.

Ndizovuta kuneneratu zomwe zidzachitike. Komanso, musaganize kuti chiweto chanu chimakhala chonyowa chokha pamene mukusowa masiku kuntchito. Koma, ngati mutasankhabe kutenga mphaka wachiwiri, ndi bwino kukumbukira malamulo angapo ovomerezeka omwe angakuthandizeni kupanga mabwenzi ndi nyama zanu mosavuta.

Choyamba, nyama yachiwiri iyenera kukhala yaying'ono kuposa yoyamba. Kukhala paubwenzi ndi amphaka awiri achikulire omwe ali ndi zizoloŵezi zokhazikika ndizovuta kwambiri kusiyana ndi kuti chiweto chitengere mphaka. Ana amphaka sanakhazikitsebe madera, zomwe nthawi zambiri zimayambitsa mikangano yambiri. Mwana wa mphaka adzatenga ulamuliro wa munthu wokalamba mopepuka, ndipo mphaka wanu amachitira mlendo mosasamala ngati mwana, ayambe kuphunzitsa ndi kusamalira, zomwe zingathandize kuchepetsa kukula kwa zilakolako zomwe zingatheke. Ngakhale, ndithudi, njira yosavuta ndiyo kutenga amphaka awiri kuchokera ku zinyalala zomwezo, kuzolowera kumakhala kosavuta, koma ndi anthu ochepa okha omwe amasankha kuchitapo kanthu.

Kachiwiri, palibe vuto musapereke chidwi kwambiri kwa watsopano kuposa wakale. Khalidwe loterolo lidzayambitsa nsanje ngakhale pakatsamba yemwe sakhala ndi anthu, ndipo nyamazi zimatha kusonyeza nsanje m'njira zosiyanasiyana, ndipo mwiniwakeyo sangakonde njira imodzi yokha.

Chachitatu, alekanitse nyama kwa nthawi yoyamba. Ayi, simuyenera kuwatsekera m'zipinda zosiyanasiyana. Aliyense ayenera kupuma. Komanso, kumbukirani: kugona mphaka wakale ndi zoletsedwa kwa watsopano. Moyenera, ziweto zomwe zili m'nyumbamo ziyenera kukhala ndi malo awoawo apadera odyera, kusewera ndi kugona, ndipo malo osangalalira amasiyanitsidwa bwino ndi khomo.

Mukabweretsa watsopano kunyumba, mungamusiye m’chonyamuliracho kuti azolowerane ndi fungo latsopano, ndipo mphaka wanu akhoza kumuunkhira mosamala n’kuzolowerana ndi watsopanoyo. Nthawi zambiri, ndizotheka kupanga mabwenzi pakati pa amphaka awiri, ngakhale osayesa koyamba. Komabe, zimachitika kuti nyama zazikulu ndizozoloŵera kusungulumwa kotero kuti sizingavomereze aliyense watsopano.

Chithunzi: Kusonkhanitsa