Galu amaopa madzi. Zoyenera kuchita?

Monga lamulo, galu amawopa madzi, mwina chifukwa cha kupsyinjika kwake, kapena chifukwa cha chikhalidwe chotengera kwa amayi ake.

Ngati mayi wa chiweto chanu sanasangalale ndi mawu osamba, ndiye kuti mwana wagalu nayenso adzatembenuza mchira wake ataona kusamba kwa madzi. Choncho, zimatenga miyezi itatu kuti ayambe kupanga khalidwe la nyama ndi zizolowezi zake. Iyi ndi nthawi yofunika kwambiri ya chikhalidwe cha anthu, kugonjetsa mantha, kulimbikitsa stereotypes. Panthawi imeneyi, mwiniwakeyo ali ndi chikoka chachikulu pa mwanayo ndipo amatha kusintha zizoloŵezi zomwe zimasokoneza nyama.

Nthawi zambiri galu yemwe watengera kuopa madzi amapewa kuyandikira dziwe, amaima akafika m'mphepete mwa dziwe. Panthaŵi imodzimodziyo, akukalipira mwiniwakeyo, akumamuuza kuti achoke “kumalo oipawo.”

Njira zophunzitsira kagalu kuthirira:

• Yesani kuyenda pafupipafupi m'malo osungiramo madzi. Ndikofunika kwambiri kukhala ndi nthawi yosewera pamadzi pa tsiku lotentha. Ndi bwino kuchita zimenezi galu asanadye. Ngati mwana wagalu alowa m'madzi, ziyenera kukhala zokondweretsa kwa iye, mwinamwake nthawi yotsatira sipangakhale kupambana koteroko;

• Muyenera kuyesa masewera osiyanasiyana osangalatsa m'madzi osaya. Zoseweretsa zomwe mumakonda zitha kugwiritsidwa ntchito, kuthamanga m'mphepete mwa dziwe losaya;

• Mukhoza kuponyera mankhwala pafupi ndi nyanja, koma nkofunika kuonetsetsa kuti mtunda wa madzi umachepetsa pang'onopang'ono;

• Njira yothandiza kwambiri idzakhala chitsanzo cha agalu ena - osewera nawo omwe amakonda madzi;

• Chitsanzo chaumwini cha mwiniwake chidzakhalanso njira yothandiza. Odziwa kubereketsa agalu adzakhala ndi zokumbukira zingapo za momwe adathandizira kagalu kulowa m'madzi. Mwachitsanzo, iwo amanena kuti woweta agalu wina, ali m’madzi, anakuwa, akunamizira kumira, ndipo wotetezera wokhulupirikayo anaiwala mantha ake chifukwa cha chisangalalo ndipo anathamangira kupulumutsa mwiniwake.

Zofunika!

Osamudabwitsa galu wanu. Galuyo akuwopa madzi osayembekezereka kulowa m'maso mwake, mphuno ndi makutu. Ntchito ya mwiniwakeyo ndiyo kusonyeza chiwetocho momveka bwino kuti sachithirira madzi ndiponso kuti madziwo samuika pangozi.

Chinthu chachikulu ndi chakuti galuyo amamva kuti akuyenda m'madzi yekha. Chenjezani ena a m’banjamo kuti kuponya kagalu m’madzi n’kosatheka. Ngati galu akusambira pafupi ndi inu, ndiye muthandizeni kwa kanthawi pansi pa mimba. Osasokoneza chikhumbo cha galu kusambira kumtunda. Kumbukirani kuti nthawi yomwe mwana wagalu amawopa madzi, pang'onopang'ono ndi kukomera mtima zili m'malo mwanu. Kuleza mtima ndi kukoma kwa eni ake posachedwa kudzagonjetsa phobia ya ziweto.

Panthawi imodzimodziyo, muyenera kupeŵa kuluma, kusonyeza chifundo. Nyama zimakumbukira bwino zomwe zimachitika ndipo m'tsogolomu zimatha kusokoneza eni ake.

Ngati galu kale anakumana ndi mavuto madzi (mwachitsanzo, wina anali wamwano kwambiri kuti amuphunzitse kusambira), ndiye kuti kukonza vutoli kudzakhala kovuta. Sikuti nthawi zonse n'zotheka kukwaniritsa zotsatira zomwe mukufuna, choncho yesetsani kuvomereza mnzanu yemwe ali. Poyesera kuphunzitsa madzi, yesetsani kuti musamangoganizira zoyesayesa zopambana komanso zosapambana.

Kumbukirani kuti agalu, monga anthu, ali ndi makhalidwe awoawo. Nthawi zina sizomveka kudabwa chifukwa chake galu amawopa madzi, sizingakhale mantha konse, koma kungosakonda madzi. Ndipo izi zikutanthauza kuti simuyenera kuchotsa mantha, koma kulimbikitsa kukonda kusambira.

Pankhaniyi, siyani masewerawa pafupi ndi gombe osamalizidwa nthawi iliyonse - pamalo osangalatsa kwambiri. Lolani chiweto chanu chiyambe masewerawa ndi chisangalalo nthawi ina, apo ayi zitha kuwoneka zosasangalatsa kwa iye.

Malamulo oti muzitsatira posambitsa galu:

• Pewani madzi a mizinda ikuluikulu ya mafakitale;

• Ndikwabwinonso kukana kusambira m'madamu okhala ndi magombe otsetsereka, mafunde amphamvu ndi maenje apansi pamadzi;

• Musaiwale kuti muzimutsuka galu ndi madzi atsopano mutatha kusambira m'nyanja;

• Musalole galu wanu kudumpha, musamupatse mphotho chifukwa cha izo;

• Onetsetsani kuti galu wotentha samathamangira m'madzi, perekani kumwa, kuziziritsa tsitsi pamutu pake ndi dzanja lonyowa.