N’chifukwa chiyani amphaka amakonda kupondereza anthu?

Atakhala ndi amphaka kwa kanthawi, eni ake amasiya kudabwa ndi zosiyana siyana za nyamazi. Koma bwanji ngati mphakayo mosasamala amayenda mozungulira munthu kapena akuyesetsa kuima pa iye pamene akufunitsitsa kugona? Chifukwa chiyani amphaka amapondereza miyendo yawo pa munthu - pambuyo pake m'nkhaniyi.

Chifukwa chiyani mphaka wanga akuyenda pa ine?

Mwachidule, mphaka amaponda munthu chifukwa chakuti angathe. Nthawi zambiri, cholinga chachikulu cha mphaka amene amayenda pa thupi lake ndi kutentha.

Izi ndi zoona makamaka kwa ana amphaka omwe akuyesera kupeza mayi wowalowa m'malo. Ana amafunika kutentha kuti akhale ndi thanzi. Mwachibadwa amafunafuna chitonthozo cha munthu amene amawasamalira ndi amene amakhulupirira kuti adzawateteza. Amphaka apakhomo amasunga zambiri zachibadwa za mphaka, zomwe zikutanthauza kuti amayang'ana malo otetezeka m'nyumba: pafupi ndi mwiniwake. Kutentha kwa thupi la munthu kumapatsa mphaka chitetezo chomwe chimafunikira.

Kwenikweni, bwenzi laubweya limawona munthuyo ngati pilo wamkulu woti apumulepo. Monga momwe Chewy akulembera, “mawondo a wovalayo ali ngati bedi la mphaka.” Mofanana ndi bulangeti, pilo, kapena sofa, mphaka wanu ayenera kuonetsetsa kuti amasankha malo abwino ogona. Kuyenda mozungulira munthu kumakwaniritsa cholinga chomwechi.

Mphaka akaponda eni ake, amakwaniritsa kufunika koponda pamalo ofewa ndi zikhadabo zake. Ziweto zimachita izi mwachibadwa, nthawi zambiri kuyambira ubwana mpaka uchikulire. Ngakhale kuti palibe amene angatchule zifukwa za khalidweli motsimikiza kotheratu, akatswiri ambiri amakhulupirira kuti amphaka amachita zimenezi chifukwa amatengera zochita za amphaka amake.

“Chifukwa chakuti mphaka zako zili ndi fungo la fungo, kuwaponda kumawalola kusiya fungo lawo lomwe amphaka kapena ziweto zina amanunkhiza, koma osati anthu,” inatero Animal Planet. "Mochenjera kwambiri, amadziwitsa amphaka ena kuti ndi ngodya yake ndikuti ena onse apite kukapondaponda kwina." 

M’mawu ena, mphaka akadinda pazanja pa munthu, amaonetsa malo ake.

Bwanji amphaka amapondereza mwiniwake ali pabedi

Chiweto chikhoza kukhala ndi chizolowezi chokwera kwa munthu pamene wangokhala pabedi patatha tsiku lalitali kuntchito, kapena pamene ili XNUMX koloko m'mawa. Ndipotu, mphaka amangofuna chidwi apa ndi pano.

Podziwa kuti mwiniwakeyo akhoza kusokonezedwa ndi TV, nyumba kapena kugona, bwenzi laubweya limamvetsetsa kuti sangathe kunyalanyazidwa ngati akukwera pa mwiniwake ndikuyang'ana m'maso mwake. Mphakayo mwina akuyembekeza kuti kuwongolera kumeneku kudzamuthandiza kupeza zokhwasula-khwasula asanagone, kumenyetsako pang'ono, kapena kukumbatirana kwambiri. Ndipo makamaka zonse mwakamodzi.

Momwe mungayamwitse mphaka kukwera pa mwiniwake

Pali njira zingapo zochepetsera pang'onopang'ono kuchuluka kwa zonena za kukongola kosalala.

Chimodzi mwa izo ndikuchotsa mphaka pang'onopang'ono pamalo pomwe amasokoneza. Mwachitsanzo, muike pafupi ndi inu kapena ngakhale pansi. Palibe chifukwa chomulalatira kapena kumulanga.

Mutha kusintha chidwi cha mphaka ku ngodya yake kuti agone. Mwachitsanzo, apangireni bedi lomwe lingakhutiritse chikondi chake cha zofewa komanso kufunikira kwake kwachitetezo. Iyi ndi njira yabwino kwambiri yomusunthira kuchoka mmimba mwako kupita kumalo osangalatsa komanso ochezeka ndi agalu.

Mantra yofunika kubwereza nthawi iliyonse chiweto chanu chikuyesera kukwera pa inu ndi: "N'chifukwa chiyani mphaka wanga akuyenda pa ine? Chifukwa chiyani wayimirira pa ine? Chifukwa amandikonda kwambiri.”

Mnzake waubweya amafuna kukhala pafupi kwambiri ndi mwiniwake, chifukwa ndi munthu wake wokondedwa kwambiri. Izi zidzakuthandizani kukumbukira kuti iyi ndi njira yokhayo yomwe mphaka angasonyezere chikondi.