N'chifukwa chiyani khoswe amaluma komanso momwe angayamwitse?

Ngati makoswe okongoletsera aluma, pali chifukwa chake. Tikugogomezera kuti si kuluma kulikonse kumalankhula za negativity pa mbali ya Pet. M'malo awo achilengedwe, makoswe amagwiritsa ntchito kuluma polankhulana. Tanthauzo la kuluma kofooka koteroko tingadziŵe mwa kuona mmene khosweyo alili m’thupi ndi m’maganizo. Kukula kwa mano kumatanthauza kuti chiweto chanu chimakukondani. Kuluma kumalankhula za chifundo: kusintha kotereku kumachitika ndi makoswe akamatsuka ubweya wina ndi mnzake.

Ngati chiweto chikubwera kwa inu ndikuluma kamodzi, koma momveka bwino, amafunikira chidwi. Ngati muluma kamodzi khoswe amathawa, koma akuyang'ana mmbuyo ndikubwerera kwa inu, ndiye nthawi yoti musewere.

Ndi masewera ndi kulankhulana, chirichonse chikuwonekera. Chodetsa nkhawa kwambiri ndi funso la chifukwa chomwe makoswe amaluma mpaka kutuluka magazi. Khalidwe limeneli ndi lofanana ndi la amuna akatha msinkhu: ali ndi zaka zisanu mpaka zisanu ndi ziwiri. Mahomoni amasewera pachiweto, amafunikira mtendere, wadi yanu ikudutsanso kukonzanso thupi.

Kwa akazi, khalidwe laukali ndi chikhumbo chofuna kuluma mwiniwakeyo ndizochitika panthawi yomwe ali ndi pakati komanso kusamalira ana. Chidziwitso chachibadwa chimauza makoswe kuti kuphwanya kulikonse kwa malo aumwini, kuopseza kongopeka ndi chifukwa chotetezera ana ake mwachangu. 

Kodi pangakhale zifukwa zina ziti?

• kufuna kulamulira. Nthawi zina nyama zazing'ono zimayesa kulamulira, kukhazikitsa utsogoleri. Kuluma kungakhale chinthu chodzitsimikizira. Izi ndizovuta, kuyesa mphamvu. Pitirizani kulankhulana modekha popanda kuchita zinthu zakuthupi. Muzichitira zinthu mwachisangalalo, chidwi ndi chinachake.
• Kupsyinjika, mantha, kumverera kwachiwopsezo, zinthu zosasangalatsa za m'ndende, mwachitsanzo, khola lochepetsetsa.
• Phokoso lalikulu la zozimitsa moto pamsewu kapena kukonza kuseri kwa khoma.
• Kusamukira ku malo atsopano ndi ulendo, pambuyo pake chiweto chidzachira kwa masiku angapo.
• Fungo losokoneza. Ngati ndinu mwiniwake watsopano wa makoswe okongoletsera, fungo losadziwika la manja anu likhoza kuopseza bwenzi la miyendo inayi.

Mukatha kuyanjana ndi ziweto zina (agalu, amphaka, mbalame, ndi zina zotero), onetsetsani kuti mwasamba m'manja. Zingakhale bwino ngati khoswe sanunkhiza nyama ina: ikhoza kumusokoneza.

• Kuyankhulana kolakwika. Zowopsa komanso ngati zokonzeka kuukira ndi makoswe omwe sanakhale ndi mwayi ndi eni ake akale. Kufuna kuluma kumabwera chifukwa cha kuzunzidwa ndi kunyalanyazidwa.
• Kusamala kwambiri. Palibe chifukwa chopitirizira kulumikizana ndikunyamula chiweto m'manja mwanu. Atatopa ndi kukumbatirana ndi masewera, khoswe akhoza kukuluma ngati chenjezo.
• Mkhalidwe woipa ndi umunthu. Nthawi zina khoswe amaluma chifukwa choti sanasangalale. Wadi wanu adzaluma mnansi mu khola chifukwa cha kusagwirizana kwa dera kapena nsanje. Makoswe, monga anthu, ali ndi chikhalidwe chosiyana - makoswe ena samaluma konse, pamene kwa ena ndizozoloŵera kuchitapo kanthu pa mphamvu iliyonse yamphamvu.
• Njala. N'zotheka kuti makoswe okongoletsera amaluma chifukwa cha njala. Musaiwale kudyetsa ward yanu pafupipafupi. Sambani m'manja mutatha kukonza chakudya, apo ayi fungo la chakudya lidzasokoneza chiweto chanu.
• Matenda. Mwinamwake chiweto chanu chikudwala ndipo chikumva ululu ndi kusapeza bwino - ndipo izi zimamupangitsa kukhala wosakhazikika. Simungaganize kuti chiweto chanu sichili bwino. Choncho, ngati chinachake chikukudetsani nkhawa mu boma ndi khalidwe la makoswe, choyamba kambiranani nkhaniyi ndi veterinarian.

Ngati khoswe wokongoletsera m'nyumba ali wathanzi, katemera, wosungidwa bwino, kuluma kwake sikuopseza ndi zotsatirapo zoopsa. Koma mano ake ndi owonda komanso aatali, kotero amasiya bala lakuya, lomwe m'mphepete mwake limachiritsa mwachangu. Chifukwa cha zimenezi, majeremusi oopsa amatha kukhalabe pabalapo.

Kodi mungathandizire bwanji kulumidwa ndi khoswe? Timafinya madontho angapo a magazi pabalapo, kenaka timawachiza ndi mankhwala ophera tizilombo toyambitsa matenda ndikusindikiza ndi pulasitala.

Pasanathe masiku awiri kapena atatu makoswe alumidwa, yang'anirani bwino momwe mulili. Ngati chilonda chikuwoneka chotupa, kupweteka kwa mutu kapena kupweteka kwa minofu kumawonekera, kutentha kumakwera, muyenera kuwona dokotala.

Chinthu chachikulu ndikulera chiweto kuyambira ubwana. Mayankho onse amakhalidwe amapangidwa muubwana. Ngati simukuphunzitsa chiweto chanu maluso oyambira amakhalidwe kuyambira ali mwana, ndiye kuti ubwenzi wanu wamtsogolo ungakhale wokayikira.

Kodi mungaletse bwanji khoswe kuluma? 

• Ndikofunika kumvetsetsa kuti chilango chakuthupi pamene mukulera chiweto sichiloledwa. Osayesa kulanga khoswe, kwezani mawu anu kwa iye. Wadi wanu sangamvetse chifukwa chake mukukwiyira, ndipo ubale ndi chiwetocho udzawonongeka.
• Magawo ena amachitidwe amangofunika kudikirira. Ngati chiweto chanu chikutha msinkhu kapena nthawi ina yovuta, yesetsani kuti musamusokoneze. Pambuyo pa miyezi ingapo, zimakhala zosavuta kuti muyambe kulankhulana. Ndibwinonso kuti musasokoneze mkazi wapakati, ntchito yake yaikulu tsopano ndikusamalira ana ake.
• Ngati khoswe yangowonekera m'nyumba mwanu, itetezeni ku kukhudza kosafunikira ndi phokoso kwa masiku angapo. Osayika khola pafupi ndi TV kapena wailesi. Lolani khoswe pang'onopang'ono azolowere fungo la manja anu. Yambani kumupatsa zokoma kudzera pachitseko cha khola. Posachedwapa wadi wanu adzakuzolowerani ndikudzazidwa ndi chidaliro.
• Kuyesera kopanda nzeru kochitidwa ndi khoswe kuti akulumeni kuyenera kuyimitsidwa. Ngati khoswe wakuluma pamasewera osangalatsa, chotsani chiwetocho kutali ndi inu ndi dzanja lanu. Mwanjira iyi mudzawonetsa kuti simukukonda khalidweli.

Njira inanso ndi botolo lopopera lomwe lili ndi madzi oyera. Khoswe akangokuluma, nthawi yomweyo amawaza ndi madzi. Chiweto chidzazindikira kuti kusamba kosasangalatsa kwa wowaza kumalumikizidwa ndi zochita zake. Mfuti yopopera idzakuthandizani pamene khoswe wina ayamba kuluma mnansi wake mu khola. Zilch imodzi - ndipo maphwando otsutsana amabalalika kumakona osiyanasiyana a khola. Ngati khalidwe losafunidwa likupitirira, ndi bwino kupatutsa makoswe m'makola osiyana.

• Ngati makoswe akuluma pofuna kudzionetsera kuti ndi apamwamba, njira yabwino yophunzitsira ndiyo kuitembenuzira chiweto kumsana ndi kuchigwira mpaka tomboy ya dzino itakhazikika. Makoswe amachita mofanana wina ndi mzake akadziwa amene ali ndi udindo pano. Musalole kuti chiweto chipulumuke, apo ayi muyeso wa maphunziro sungagwire ntchito, ndipo mustachioed hooligan angaganize kuti ndiye mbuye wa zochitikazo. Koma musaike mphamvu pa thupi la makoswe, sayenera kupweteka. Oweta makoswe odziwa bwino amagwiritsa ntchito kugudubuza kumbuyo kwawo monga kufotokozera kwa chiweto kuti iyi si njira yochitira.

Pezani nthawi yocheza ndi chiweto chanu, tcherani khutu kwa izo. Ngati khoswe wapakhomo akumva chikondi ndi chisamaliro kuchokera kumbali yanu, padzakhala mavuto ochepa ndi khalidwe lake. Tikufuna kuti nthawi zonse muzipeza chilankhulo chodziwika ndi ziweto zanu!