Kusintha kwa Agalu Wakutchire ku Moyo Wabanja: Kuneneratu ndi Kusiyanasiyana

Ndisungitsa nthawi yomweyo kuti ndikofunikira kugwira ntchito ndi galu wakuthengo aliyense potengera momwe chinyamacho chilili. Ndimalimbikitsa kwambiri kukonzanso ndi kusintha kwa galu wamtchire mu gulu lokhala ndi zoopsychologist: kulakwitsa kuntchito kungayambitse zolepheretsa kwambiri kapena kuyambitsa chiwawa kapena kukhumudwa kwa galu. Inde, ndipo katswiri nthawi zambiri amagwira ntchito ndi zida zambiri za njira ndi masewera osiyanasiyana omwe cholinga chake ndi kukhudzana ndi munthu. M'nkhaniyi, ndiyang'ana momwe mungasamalire zolosera komanso zosiyanasiyana posintha galu wamtchire kumoyo wabanja.

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Kuneneratu za kusintha kwa galu wakutchire kukhala moyo m'banja

Kumbukirani, takambirana kale momwe galu wakutchire amatiwonera poyamba? Ndife zolengedwa zachilendo komanso zosamvetsetseka, nyumba yonseyo imadzazidwa ndi zosamvetsetseka komanso mwina zomveka zaudani ndi fungo la galu. Ndipo ntchito yathu yayikulu, yomwe timachita m'masiku oyamba a 3-7, ndikupanga zodziwikiratu. Zonse ndi zolosera.

Timapatsa galu kiyi yoyamba kutimvetsetsa ife monga zamoyo. Ndipo timachita izi polemba miyambo, miyambo yambiri yomwe imatsagana ndi maonekedwe athu ndi kukhalapo kwathu mu moyo wa galu.

Mwachitsanzo, kuoneka kwathu mwadzidzidzi m’chipinda chimene galuyo ali kukhoza kuchititsa mantha. Ntchito yathu ndikukhazika mtima pansi ndikupumula galu momwe tingathere. Ndikupangira kwambiri nthawi iliyonse mukalowa m'chipinda, mwachitsanzo, kugogoda pachitseko, kenaka lowetsani.

Timayika mbale ya chakudya. Mwa njira, poyamba yesetsani kupeŵa kugwiritsa ntchito mbale zachitsulo - phokoso limene mbale imasuntha pansi kapena matepi owuma a chakudya m'mbali mwa mbaleyo amatha kuopseza galu. Moyenera, gwiritsani ntchito mbale za ceramic - ndi zabwino kuchokera ku ukhondo, komanso chete. Musanatsitse mbaleyo pansi, itanani galuyo dzina lake, dinani pambali, nenani zomwe pambuyo pake zidzakhala chizindikiro kuti muyambe kudya.

Timayika mbale ya madzi - adayitana dzina, anagogoda pambali, anati: "Imwani", ikani mbaleyo.

Tinaganiza zokhala pansi - tinawombera pansi ndi manja athu, tinakhala pansi. Adaganiza zodzuka: adamenya manja awo, adadzuka.

Chokani m'nyumba - bwerani ndi script, auzeni galu kuti mukuchoka. Nditabwerera kunyumba, mukamuwuze izi kuchokera panjira.

Zambiri zatsiku ndi tsiku momwe zingathere. M'kupita kwa nthawi, mudzawona kuti galuyo, yemwe, atagwidwa pa jamb asanalowe m'chipindamo, adathamangira pansi pa tebulo ndikukankhira ku khoma lakutali kwambiri, akuyamba kuthawa. Iye akubisalabe, inde, koma atagona kale pakati pa "nyumba", ndiye akutulutsa mutu wake kunja. Ndipo tsiku lina mutsegula chitseko ndikupeza galu atayima pakati pa chipinda ndikukuyang'anani.

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Galu yemwe sanayankhe kumenya m'mbali mwa mbale tsiku loyamba adzayamba kutembenuzira mutu wake ku mbaleyo patapita masiku angapo, atamva mbama. Inde, poyamba adzadikira mpaka mutatuluka m'chipindamo, koma zonse zili ndi nthawi yake.

Mukukumbukira zomwe Nkhandwe inanena kwa Kalonga Wamng'ono? “Uyenera kudekha.” Tiyeneranso kukhala oleza mtima. Galu aliyense ndi wapadera. Aliyense wa iwo ali ndi nkhani yake, yomwe ife, nthawi zambiri, tikhoza kungoganizira. Aliyense wa iwo amafunikira nthawi inayake kuti ayambe kudalira.

Kudziwiratu m'masiku oyambilira oyika galu m'nyumba ndikofunikiranso kuti muchepetse kupsinjika komwe kumatsatira kugwidwa ndi kusintha kwa zochitika, kuti dongosolo lamanjenje lipumule. 

Kupanga Zosiyanasiyana Posintha Galu Wamtchire Kukhala Moyo Wabanja

Komabe, m'malo mwake tiyenera kupitiliza kupanga kusiyanasiyana kwamasewera athu.

Agalu ena amatha kuperekedwa kwenikweni kuyambira tsiku loyamba, ena - pakapita nthawi, pafupifupi, kuyambira masiku 4 - 5.

Zosiyanasiyana zimakwiyitsa galu kuti afufuze chilengedwe, komanso chidwi, mukudziwa, injini yakupita patsogolo - munkhaniyi nayenso. Galuyo akamachita zinthu mwachangu, mofuna kudziwa zambiri, zimakhala zosavuta kuti amuumirize kuti agwirizane, zimakhala zosavuta kuti amulepheretse "kuvutika maganizo".

Ndipo iyi ndi mfundo yofunika kwambiri yomwe ndikufuna kutsindika mwapadera.

Muzochita zanga, nthawi zambiri ndimakumana ndi mabanja omwe, moona mtima, chifukwa cha kukoma mtima kwawo, adayesetsa kuti asadandaule galu kachiwiri, adamupatsa nthawi yoti azolowere, popanda kumukhudza, popanda kumulepheretsa kukhala ndi mantha ake. Tsoka ilo, chifundo choterechi nthawi zambiri chimasokoneza: galu ndi cholengedwa chomwe chimasinthasintha msanga. Ndipo imagwirizana ndi mikhalidwe yosiyanasiyana: yabwino ndi yoipa. Bwanji, agalu… M’dziko lathu laumunthu amati: “Mtendere wosalimba uli bwino kuposa nkhondo yabwino.” Zachidziwikire, tanthauzo loyambirira la mawuwa likunena za malo ena, koma muyenera kuvomereza kuti ife tokha nthawi zambiri timazolowera kukhala ndi moyo wosakhala bwino, womwe timawopa kusintha, chifukwa ...

Timawonanso chimodzimodzi ndi galu wakuthengo, yemwe wapatsidwa mwayi "wochira" kwa nthawi yayitali popanda thandizo lakunja. Galu adazolowera malo "ake" pansi pa tebulo kapena pansi pa sofa. Nthawi zambiri amayamba kupita kuchimbudzi komweko, ndipo anthu achifundo amalowetsa madzi ndi chakudya kumeneko. Inu mukhoza kukhala ndi moyo. Zoipa, koma zotheka.

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Ichi ndichifukwa chake ndikupangira kuti tiyambitse mitundu yosiyanasiyana ya galu atangokonzekera.

Zosiyanasiyana zitha kukhala muzinthu zomwe timazibweretsa tsiku lililonse ndikuzisiya m'chipindamo kuti tikhumudwitse galu kuti azifufuza tikalibe. Zinthu zikhoza kukhala zosiyana kwambiri: kuchokera ku ndodo ndi masamba obweretsedwa kuchokera mumsewu, ndi fungo la msewu, kupita ku zinthu zapakhomo. Chilichonse chili bwino, chilichonse chidzachita, tangoganizani mozama: kodi chinthuchi chidzawopsyeza galu?

Mwachitsanzo, kodi chopondapo ndi chinthu chabwino kuti mudziwe? Inde, koma pokhapokha mutakhala kale pafupi ndi galu pa nthawi yodziwika bwino, ngati wayamba kale kukukhulupirirani. Chifukwa, poyang'ana chopondapo yekha, galu akhoza kuika mapazi ake kuti awone zomwe zili pamwamba (mwinamwake, zitero), chopondapo chikhoza kugwedezeka (kapena kugwa pansi). Pachifukwa ichi, galu akhoza kuchita mantha: kutayika kwakukulu kwachitsulo ndi chopondapo chododometsa, kubangula kwa chopondapo chakugwa, chopondapo chikagwa, chikhoza kugunda galu - izi ndizoopsa kwambiri!

Chinthucho chiyenera kukhala chotetezeka kwa galu. Galuyo ayenera kukhala wokhoza kumuona bwinobwino.

M'masiku oyambirira, nthawi zambiri ndimalimbikitsa kubweretsa zinthu zokhudzana ndi chakudya kwa galu - zoseweretsa zosavuta kufufuza.

Choyamba, chidwi cha chakudya chimapangitsa galu kuyenda mumlengalenga ndikuchitapo kanthu kuti apeze chakudya.

Kachiwiri, panthawi yopezera chakudya, galu ayenera kupirira kukhudza m'mphepete mwa mphuno, motero timayamba kuphunzitsa galu mopanda pake kuti kuumitsa kumapindula: osalabadira kukhudza kwa pepala - kukwera mopitirira, kukumba, kupeza mphotho yake.

Chachitatu, kachiwiri, ife passively kuphunzitsa galu kusewera ndi zidole, ndi luso kusewera adzakhala zofunika kwa ife m'tsogolo kukhala kukhudzana galu ndi munthu, chifukwa ndondomeko maphunziro. Ndipo iyi ndi mfundo yofunika kwambiri, chifukwa. nthawi zambiri agalu akutchire sadziwa kusewera ndi zidole. Sanali kusowa - moyo wawo unali kupulumuka, ndi masewera otani omwe alipo. Anasiya kusewera adakali ana agalu. Ndipo tidzawaphunzitsa izi ndi cholinga.

Ndipo chachinayi, kawirikawiri agalu amakonda kwambiri masewera otere, amawayembekezera. Ndipo masewerawa ndi omwe amakhala ngati mlatho kuti muyambe kucheza ndi munthu.

Mwatsatanetsatane ndikhala pamasewera otere m'nkhani zina. Tsopano tibwerera ku zinthu zatsopano zomwe zili mu chilengedwe cha galu. Ndimakonda kubweretsa mpukutu wa pepala la chimbudzi kwa galu - mulole kuti afufuze: mukhoza kuyendetsa, kuyesa pa dzino, kupukuta ndikung'amba ndi mano. beseni la pulasitiki likugona mozondoka: mutha kuyika miyendo yanu, kupukuta ndi dzanja lanu, mutha kuyika chokoma pansi pake.

Chilichonse, palibe zambiri.

Ingokhalani galu posankha chinthu, ganizirani ngati galu kuti mumvetse ngati chinthucho chidzakhala chotetezeka kapena ngati chingawopsyeze kuthengo.