Kodi amphaka ndi oyenera kwa inu?

Mukuganiza zopeza mphaka kwa nthawi yoyamba m'moyo wanu? Zabwino zonse!

Mwina mumakonda amphaka, koma musanatenge mphaka wanu woyamba, dzifunseni kuti: “Kodi ndimakondadi amphaka? Kodi ndine mphaka? Kodi ndingadziwe bwanji? Dzifunseni mafunso atatu otsatirawa omwe okonda amphaka amadziwika nawo.

1. Kodi mumamvetsa amphaka?

Chimodzi mwazinthu zoyamba kudziwa ngati ndinu mphaka ndikulankhula ndi eni ziweto. Pitani kwa anzanu ochepa omwe ali ndi amphaka kuti mudziwe mitundu yosiyanasiyana ya nyama zokongolazi. Kuyendera abwenzi omwe ali ndi amphaka ndi njira yabwino yowonera ngati simukugwirizana ndi nyama. Ngati alipo, musataye mtima. Chisamaliro choyenera ndi mankhwala ozunguza bongo angapangitse kukhala ndi mphaka kukhala kosavuta, koma onetsetsani kuti mufunsane ndi dokotala musanapange chisankho chomaliza.

Ndi bwino kupita kumalo osungira ziweto kuti mupeze bwenzi loyenera. Malo ogona adzalankhula nanu za chikhalidwe, mphamvu, luso la chikhalidwe ndi umunthu wa amphaka ndi amphaka omwe ali okonzeka kutengedwa. Mudzathanso kusewera ndi kulankhulana ndi zinyama, zomwe zidzakuthandizani kwambiri popanga zisankho.

Funsani anzanu mafunso ofunika okhudza kukhala ndi mphaka. Mwachitsanzo, afunseni kuti zimatenga nthawi yochuluka bwanji kuti asamalire kukongola kwaubweya, udindo umene ali nawo ndi kukhalapo kwake m’nyumba, ndi ndalama zimene amawonongera pa chakudya, zipangizo, ndi chisamaliro chamankhwala mwezi uliwonse.

Tiyenera kukumbukira kuti ngakhale amphaka ndi ziweto zabwino kwambiri, amatchulidwanso kuti ndi anthu payekhapayekha. Iwo sangakhale zolengedwa zokonda kwambiri kuti azigwirizana nazo, ndipo ndikofunika kumvetsetsa izi musanabweretse mphaka wanu kunyumba. Kuleza mtima kwakukulu ndi kumvetsetsa khalidwe la mphaka wanu kudzakuthandizani kuti mukhale bwino ndi iye komanso kuti musakhumudwe ndi kudzipatula kwake kwa apo ndi apo.

2. Kodi muli ndi ndalama?

Ndalama zanu zikuyenera kukulolani kuti muthandize mwana wa mphaka. Kuphatikiza pazofunikira monga chakudya, mbale, bokosi la zinyalala, zoseweretsa, kolala yama tag ndi kuyang'anira Chowona Zanyama, palinso ndalama zina zomwe muyenera kuziganizira, Vetstreet akuwonetsa: lingalirani zolipirira chisamaliro chazinyama nthawi zonse, bajeti yadzidzidzi, komanso mtengo wa inshuwaransi ngati ganiza zogula imodzi.” Dziwani mtengo wa mautumikiwa m'dera lanu kuti mukonzekere bwino bajeti ya banja.

Chiweto chimafuna osati ndalama zokha komanso kugulitsa kwamalingaliro.

Ngati ndinu woyenda pafupipafupi kapena otanganidwa nthawi zonse, ngakhale mutakhala kunyumba, ndiye kuti simungakhale okonzeka kukhala ndi chiweto. Petcha akufotokoza kuti ngakhale amphaka ali ndi luso lodzisangalatsa masana, nthawi zina amatopa komanso amasungulumwa, amadzimva kuti ali olekana komanso opsinjika maganizo ngati eni ake nthawi zambiri amakhala kapena / kapena nthawi yaitali. Pamlingo wina, amphaka ndi nyama zodzidalira (mwachitsanzo, simuyenera kuthamangira kunyumba nthawi ya nkhomaliro kuti muwalole kuti apite ku chimbudzi), koma simuyenera kuwasiya okha kwa nthawi yayitali.

Kukhala ndi mphaka kumafunanso kuleza mtima kwakukulu ndi kumvetsetsa. Kaya mubwera ndi mphaka kapena mphaka wamkulu, mudzafunika kusintha nthawi yomwe mudzadziwa bwino za chikhalidwe cha wina ndi mzake, zizolowezi ndi zomwe amakonda. Nthawi zina amphaka amachita zinthu zodabwitsa, monga kuthamanga mozungulira chipinda popanda chifukwa kapena kuyang'ana pamalo omwewo pakhoma kwa nthawi yayitali, koma musadandaule, izi ndi zachilendo kwa iwo.

Eni amphaka amayeneranso kuthana ndi zochitika ndi zochitika zosiyanasiyana zosasangalatsa, ndipo muyenera kudzifunsa ngati mwakonzeka kuchita izi. Kutsuka thireyi, kukwapula mwa apo ndi apo, madyerero ammawa, ndi mphatso za mbewa zakufa ndi zina mwa izo. Pochita izi, muyenera kupatsa mphaka chikondi ndi chikondi ngakhale munthawi zovuta kwambiri.

3. Kodi ndinu okonzeka kugawana nawo?

Chinthu chinanso chodziwikiratu chotsimikizira kuti ndinu amphaka ndikulolera kugawana zinthu zanu chifukwa mnzako watsopano waubweya atenga kama, mpando womwe mumakonda komanso bedi lanu. Zinthu izi sizidzakhalanso zanu zokha! Mwinanso mungafunike kukonzanso kuti mulandire bwenzi lanu lamiyendo inayi kunyumba kwanu. Kumbukirani kuti amphaka amafunikira zinthu monga bedi, positi yokanda, mtengo wamphaka, ndi zina zambiri, zomwe zimafuna malo.

Ndipo popeza mphaka adzapanga nyumba yanu kukhala yake, muyenera kumupangira malo otetezeka. Yang'anani m'nyumba mwanu ndi maso a mphaka kuti muwone zoopsa zomwe zingatheke, kuphatikizapo zingwe ndi mawaya, zomera ndi maluwa oopsa, zinthu zosalimba, ndi zinthu zomwe zingapangitse ngozi yotsamwitsa, monga zingwe, maliboni, mabatani, ndi ndalama. Kukonzekera nyumba yanu kwa chiweto kumakhala ngati kusunga mwana wanu kunyumba, ndipo mwa njira, ngati muli ndi ana, ndi bwino kuwaphunzitsa momwe angagwirizanitse bwino ndi mphaka.

Mwina funso lofunika kwambiri lomwe muyenera kudzifunsa ndilakuti, "Kodi ndikudziwa cholinga cha nthawi yayitali?" Amphaka amatha kukhala zaka 20 kapena kuposerapo ndipo mudzakhala dziko lawo. Bwenzi lanu laubweya amadalira inu kuti mukhale wathanzi, wotetezeka komanso wosangalala.

Ngati mwayankha "inde" ku mafunso atatu awa, ndiye kuti ndinu amphaka! Tikukufunirani zabwino zonse komanso bwenzi lanu lamtsogolo.