Kodi amphaka amakonda kusisita, ndipo angachite bwino bwanji?

Zaka zingapo zapitazo, magazini yotchedwa Frontiers in Psychology inatsimikizira zomwe eni ake a ziweto ankadziwa kale: kuyanjana kwabwino ndi nyama kumachepetsa nkhawa mwa anthu. Iyi ndi nkhani yabwino kwa thanzi la munthu komanso moyo wautali, koma eni amphaka nthawi zambiri amadabwa ngati kumverera kuli kogwirizana. 

Kodi mungawete mphaka? Kodi kuweta mphaka? Nanga bwanji mphaka akamakanda ndi kuluma pamene mukumusisita?

Amphaka ambiri, ngakhale nthano yofala komanso yosalekeza yokhudzana ndi kuzizira kwawo, amakonda chikondi kuchokera kwa eni ake. Chifukwa chiyani amphaka amakonda kusisita? Pamene mwiniwake akusisita mphaka kapena kunyamula, zimalimbitsa ubale wawo.

Koti kusisita mphaka ndi bwanji

Kuweta mphaka kungakhale ntchito yovuta kwambiri. Mutha kutanthauzira molakwika zizindikiro zake ndikumaliza kumugwira molakwika kapena pamalo omwe sakonda.

Mwachitsanzo, mphaka amazungulira pansi ndi kuonetsa mimba yake. Choncho amasonyeza kuti amakhulupirira mwiniwake. Koma kusisita mimba ya mphaka si nkhani yabwino. Adzayankha ndi kukanda kapena kuluma. Chifukwa chake akuti sakufuna kusisita pamalo pomwe pano panthawi yomweyi. Mphaka amakulolani kuti musinthire mimba ngati ikufuna, Petful akufotokoza, koma izi ziyenera kuchitidwa mosamala komanso pokhapokha ngati mphakayo ali wodekha, womasuka komanso akukukhulupirirani.

Mu 2013, kafukufuku yemwe adachitika m'magazini ya Physiology & Behavior adatanthauziridwa molakwika ngati umboni woti kuweta amphaka kumawapangitsa kukhala opsinjika. John Bradshaw, mkulu wa Institute of Anthropzoology pa yunivesite ya Bristol ku England, adatsimikizira National Geographic kuti nkhawa ya amphaka oyesedwa inali chifukwa cha zochitika pamoyo wawo, osati kukumbatirana. Pakuyesaku, kusiyana pakati pa kupsinjika kwa amphaka okhala okha ndi kupsinjika kwa amphaka omwe amakhala m'mabanja omwe ali ndi amphaka angapo adaphunzira. Kukwapula kungathe kutonthoza chiweto chanu, choncho musaope kumusisita.

Mutu, mapewa, masaya ndi mphuno

Nthawi zambiri amphaka amakonda kusisita pamutu, pachibwano ndi khosi. Ena amasangalala kugwira mchira wawo, koma ena amalephera ndipo amamva kupweteka. Osathamangira zinthu, kuyang'anitsitsa momwe mphaka amachitira pokhudza ndi kulemekeza zomwe amakonda.

Mukamayang'ana njira zofikira mphaka wanu, chofunikira kwambiri ndikumulola kuti azitsogolera. Choyamba muyenera kulola mphaka kununkhiza chala cholozera ndi kuchikhudza ndi mphuno yake. Ngati mphaka wakonzeka kugonedwa, amakanikizira mlomo wake m'manja mwake ndikulozera ku makutu, chibwano, kapena malo ena omwe akufuna kusisita. Kuyenda pang'onopang'ono kudzapanga malo omasuka komanso ofunda. Ngati ayamba kugwedeza mutu wake kapena kusisita tsaya lake, ndicho chizindikiro chabwino. Ndi chifukwa cha khalidweli kuti ziweto zimasiya fungo la glands la buccal pa zipangizo zomwe amakonda komanso eni ake.

Amphaka ambiri amakonda kukumbatira eni ake, ndipo nthawi zambiri amasangalala kusungidwa ngati azolowereka pang'onopang'ono. Musanagwire mphaka wanu mwamphamvu, ndi bwino kuyamba ndi masitirolo pang'ono pang'ono kenaka munyamule pang'onopang'ono. Ndikofunikira kugwira zikhadabo zonse zinayi za nyama kuti zisakulende. 

Ngati adzimva kukhala wotetezeka m’manja mwake, amasangalala nazo kwambiri. Ngati wathawa pofuna kuthawa, muyenera kumumasula mosamala ndikuyesanso nthawi ina. Zimatengera masitepe ang'onoang'ono kuti muphunzitse chiweto chanu kukhudzana ndi tactile, ndipo nthawi zina mphotho yokoma ngati zikomo chifukwa chosakanda manja anu. Mwa njira, kaya ubale wanu, musamenye mphaka ndi ubweya.

Zomwe zimapangitsa kuti mphaka azikonda sitiroko

Mitundu ina ya amphaka imakonda kukumbatirana ndi kukumbatirana kuposa ina. Mphaka wa Siamese, mwachitsanzo, ndi mtundu wamasewera komanso wosangalatsa womwe udzafunikira chidwi kwambiri, monga Ragdoll wachikondi.

Musachite mantha ngati mphaka wanu akukana kukhudzana ndi thupi. Ikhoza kungokhala khalidwe la khalidwe lake kapena mbali ya mmene anakulira. Ngati mphaka sanakumaneko pang’ono ndi anthu ali aang’ono, zingakhale zonyinyirika kuvomera kugwiriridwa. 

Angafunike kusonkhezeredwa mowonjezereka ngati anamtengera m’banjamo ali wamkulu. Muyenera kuthandiza chiweto chanu kuti chizolowerane pogwiritsa ntchito njira zina pamwambapa. Koma pali nyama zomwe sizimakonda kunyamulidwa: zimakonda kukhala mphaka atagona pafupi ndi iwo, osati mphaka atagona pamiyendo yawo.

Kupanga chidaliro ndi njira yapang'onopang'ono mu ubale uliwonse. Kupatsa mphaka chikondi ndi chikondi, mwiniwake adzalipidwa ndi bwenzi labwino kwambiri padziko lonse lapansi. Ndipo mwina adzakulolani kuti mukanda m'mimba mwake kamodzi.