Kodi galuyo amachita zinthu moipitsitsa pozungulira mwini wake?

Nthawi zambiri, okonza ndi othandizira salola eni ake kupita ku makalasi kapena njira zodzikongoletsera. Kulimbikitsa izi ndi mfundo yakuti galuyo amachita zoipa ndi mwiniwake. Ndi zoona? Ndipo ngati ndi choncho, n’chifukwa chiyani galuyo ali ndi khalidwe lotere?

Tiyeni tisungitse nthawi yomweyo kuti sitikutanthauza milandu pamene agalu amachitiridwa nkhanza mu salon kapena m'kalasi yophunzitsa mphete. Pankhaniyi, chikhumbo "chochotsa" mwiniwake chikugwirizana kokha ndi mfundo yakuti sangathe kuwona njira zothandizira galu ndikupanga chisankho chopitiliza mgwirizano ndi "katswiri" wotere. Koma ndikuyembekeza kuti simugwera mumsampha umenewo.

Tikulankhula za osamalira bwino komanso okongoletsa. Zomwe nthawi zina zimatsutsana ndi kukhalapo kwa mwiniwake panthawi yokonzekera kapena kuphunzitsa mphete. Ndipo apa ndikofunikira kudziwa zotsatirazi.

Choyamba, pankhani ya katswiri wamba, si galu aliyense komanso si eni ake onse omwe amachita zoyipa.

Kumbali imodzi, ndithudi, popanda kuyang'anitsitsa kwa mwiniwake, zimakhala zosavuta kuti akatswiri ena apeze njira zawo za momwe angakhalire ndi galu.

Komabe, osasiya galu ndi mlendo, makamaka ngati mumuwona kwa nthawi yoyamba m'moyo wanu, ndi zachilendo kwa munthu yemwe ali ndi udindo komanso amakhudzidwa ndi moyo wa mwiniwake wa ziweto. Ziribe kanthu zomwe osamalira ndi okonza amakuuzani. Ndipo ngati mukuperekezedwa mosalekeza, koma mukufunabe kuwona chilichonse ndi maso anu, ndiye kuti mutha kupita kumalo ena komwe kukhalapo kwa mwiniwake kumaloledwa - izi ndizabwinobwino.

Koma, chachiwiri, nthawi zina agalu amakhala oipitsitsa pamaso pa eni ake.

Choyipa kwambiri ndi mwiniwake, galu amatha kuchita zinthu ziwiri:

1. Pamene mwiniwake akuyesera nthawi zonse kulamula mkwati kapena wothandizira, koma kulowerera kwake sikuli kothandiza. Ndiko kuti, galu sakhala bwino kuchokera ku malangizo ake amtengo wapatali.
2. Ngati galu ndi waukali komanso nthawi yomweyo kudzidalira. Pamenepa, mwini galuyo akhoza kusonyeza chiwawa.

Komabe, ngati mwiniwakeyo ali wokhazikika mokwanira, momveka bwino muzofunikira zake komanso zomveka kwa galu, ndiye kuti galu aliyense adzachita naye bwino, osati moipitsitsa.