Kodi amphaka olumala amapeza bwanji nyumba?

Malinga ndi kafukufuku wopangidwa ndi PetFinder, ziweto zomwe zimawonedwa ngati "zosafunikira kwenikweni" zimadikirira nthawi zinayi kuti zipeze nyumba yatsopano kuposa ziweto zina. Nthawi zambiri, m'malo obisalamo omwe adachita nawo kafukufukuyu, 19 peresenti adawonetsa kuti ziweto zokhala ndi zosowa zapadera zimavutirapo kuposa zina kupeza malo okhala. Amphaka olumala nthawi zambiri amanyalanyazidwa ndi eni ake popanda chifukwa chomveka. Ngakhale kuti angakhale ndi zosoŵa zapadera, ndithudi amafunikira chikondi chocheperapo. Nazi nkhani za amphaka atatu olumala ndi ubale wawo wapadera ndi eni ake.

Amphaka Olemala: Nkhani ya Milo ndi Kelly

Zaka zingapo zapitazo, Kelly anapeza chinachake chosayembekezereka pabwalo lake: “Tinaona kamwana kamwana ka ginger wonyezimira m’tchire, ndipo dzanja lake linali likulendewera mwanjira inayake mosakhala mwachibadwa.” Mphakayo akuwoneka kuti alibe pokhala, koma Kelly sanali wotsimikiza za izi, popeza anali asanabwere kudzamuwona. Conco, anam’siyira cakudya ndi madzi, poganiza kuti zikanamupangitsa kukhulupirira iye ndi banja lake. “Komabe, tinazindikira mwamsanga kuti mwana wa mphakayu ankafunikira chithandizo chamankhwala,” iye akutero. Banja lake lonse linayesa kumunyengerera kuti atuluke m’tchire kuti akamutengere kwa dokotala wa zinyama kuti akalandire chithandizo: “M’kupita kwa nthaŵi mpongozi wanga anagona pansi ndi kumangodya mwakachetechete kufikira atatulukira kwa ife!”

Katswiri wazowona zanyama Kelly ankakhulupirira kuti mphakayo ayenera kuti anagundidwa ndi galimoto ndipo ankafunika kudulidwa mwendo wake. Kuonjezera apo, dokotala wa zinyama ankaganiza kuti angakhalenso ndi vuto, choncho mwayi woti apulumuke unali wochepa. Kelly adaganiza zochita mwayi, adatcha mphakayo Milo ndipo adasankha kumuchita opaleshoni kuti achotse chiwalo cholendeweracho. Iye anati: “Milo anachira atakhala pachifuwa kwa masiku angapo ndipo ndinkachitabe mantha ndi aliyense kupatulapo ine ndi mmodzi wa ana athu aamuna.

Milo adzakwanitsa zaka zisanu ndi zitatu mu May. “Iye amaopabe anthu ambiri, koma amatikonda kwambiri mwamuna wanga ndi ine, ndi ana athu aamuna aŵiri, ngakhale kuti nthaŵi zonse samamvetsetsa mmene angasonyezere chikondi chake.” Atafunsidwa za mavuto amene amakumana nawo, Kelly anayankha kuti: “Nthawi zina amachita mantha ngati akuganiza kuti alephera kuchita bwino ndipo angatigwetsere zikhadabo zake mwamphamvu. Choncho tiyenera kukhala oleza mtima. Amatha kuyenda bwino, koma nthawi zina amapeputsa kudumpha ndipo amatha kugwetsa zinthu. Apanso, ndi nkhani yongomvetsetsa kuti sangachite kalikonse ndipo iwe ukungotola zidutswazo.

Kodi kunali koyenera kupeza mwayi wopulumutsa moyo wa Milo podula chiwalo pomwe mwina sakanapulumuka? Kumene. Kelly anati: “Sindingasinthe mphaka ameneyu ndi wina aliyense padziko lapansi. Anandiphunzitsa zambiri za kuleza mtima ndi chikondi.” Ndipotu, Milo walimbikitsa anthu ena kusankha amphaka olumala, makamaka odulidwa. Kelly anati: “Mnzanga Jody akuweta amphaka ku APL (Animal Protective League) ku Cleveland. Waweta nyama zambirimbiri, ndipo nthawi zambiri amasankha zomwe zili ndi mavuto aakulu omwe sangakhalepo - ndipo pafupifupi iliyonse yapulumuka chifukwa iye ndi mwamuna wake amazikonda kwambiri. Mtundu wokha wa mphaka amene sanamutenge anali odulidwa ziwalo. Koma ataona mmene Milo ankachitira bwino, anayambanso kutengera anthu odulidwa ziwalo. Ndipo Jody anandiuza kuti Milo anapulumutsa amphaka angapo chifukwa anam’patsa kulimba mtima kuti aziwakonda kuti akhale bwino.”

Amphaka Olemala: Mbiri ya Dublin, Nickel ndi Tara

Pamene Tara analoŵa mu Dublin yamiyendo itatu, anamvetsetsa bwino lomwe chimene anali kudziloŵetsamo. Tara ndi wokonda nyama, anali ndi mphaka wina wamiyendo itatu dzina lake Nickel, yemwe ankamukonda kwambiri ndipo, mwatsoka, anamwalira mu 2015. Mnzake atamuimbira foni n’kumuuza kuti malo obisalirako kumene anali wojambula wongodzipereka anali nawo. mphaka wamiyendo itatu, Tara, ndithudi, sanali kubweretsa kunyumba ziweto zatsopano. “Ndinali kale ndi amphaka ena aŵiri amiyendo inayi Nickel atamwalira,” iye akutero, “kotero ndinali ndi chikayikiro, koma sindinaleke kulingalira za zimenezo, ndipo pomalizira pake ndinasiya ndi kupita kukakumana naye.” Nthawi yomweyo adakondana ndi mphaka uyu, adaganiza zomutenga ndikumubweretsa kunyumba usiku womwewo.

Chosankha chake chopita ku Dublin chinali chofanana ndi momwe adatengera Nickel zaka zingapo m'mbuyomo. “Ndinapita ku bungwe la SPCA (Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Animals) ndi mnzanga kuti tikaone mphaka wovulala amene anapeza pansi pa galimoto yake. Ndipo tili komweko, ndinawona mphaka wowoneka bwino wa imvi (anali pafupi miyezi isanu ndi umodzi yakubadwa), amawoneka ngati akutambasulira manja ake kwa ife kudzera muzitsulo za khola. Pamene Tara ndi bwenzi lake anafika pafupi ndi khola, anazindikira kuti mphaka wasowa mbali ina ya phazi. Popeza malo ogonawo anali kuyembekezera kuti mwini mphakayo alankhule nawo, Tara analembetsa pamndandanda wodikira kuti adzitengere yekha mwana wa mphaka. Atamuitana patapita masiku angapo, Nickel anayamba kudwala kwambiri ndipo anali ndi malungo. “Ndidachigwira n’kupita kwa ang’onoang’ono omwe adamuchotsa chikhadabo chake ndikupita naye kunyumba. Patha pafupifupi masiku atatu, anali kumwabe mankhwala ochepetsa ululu, dzanja lake linali lomangidwabe, koma ndinapeza pawadiropo yanga. Mpaka pano, sindikumvetsa kuti anafika bwanji kumeneko, koma palibe chimene chingamulepheretse.”

Amphaka olumala amafunikira chikondi ndi chikondi cha eni ake monga mphaka wina aliyense, koma Tara amakhulupirira kuti izi ndi zoona makamaka kwa anthu odulidwa. "Sindikudziwa momwe izi zimakhalira amphaka amiyendo itatu, koma Dublin ndi mphaka wanga, monga Nickel. Iye ndi waubwenzi, wansangala komanso wokonda kusewera, koma osati mofanana ndi amphaka amiyendo inayi.” Tara amaonanso kuti anthu odulidwa ziwalo ndi oleza mtima kwambiri. "Dublin, monga Nickel, ndiye mphaka wochezeka kwambiri m'nyumba mwathu, woleza mtima kwambiri ndi ana anga anayi (amapasa azaka 9, 7 ndi 4), kotero zimanena zambiri za mphaka."

Atafunsidwa kuti ndi zovuta ziti zomwe amakumana nazo posamalira Dublin, adayankha: "Chinthu chokhacho chomwe chimandidetsa nkhawa kwambiri ndi kupsinjika kwa dzanja lotsala lakutsogolo ... kuti akusowa chiwalo! Dublin ndi wothamanga kwambiri, choncho Tara sadera nkhawa za mmene amayenda m’nyumba kapena mmene amachitira zinthu ndi nyama zina: “Iye sakumana ndi vuto akathamanga, kulumpha kapena kumenyana ndi amphaka ena. Pamkangano, nthawi zonse amatha kudziyimira yekha. Pokhala wamng’ono pa onse (ali ndi zaka pafupifupi 3 zakubadwa, wina wamwamuna ali ndi zaka pafupifupi 4, ndipo wamkazi ali ndi zaka 13 kapena kuposerapo), ali wodzala ndi mphamvu ndipo sachedwa kuputa amphaka ena.”

Amphaka olumala, kaya akusowa chiwalo kapena ali ndi matenda aliwonse, amafunika chikondi ndi chisamaliro chomwe amphaka atatuwa amasangalala nawo. Chifukwa chakuti angakhale osayenda kwambiri kuposa amphaka amiyendo inayi, amatha kusonyeza chikondi powapatsa mpata. Ndipo ngakhale kuti zingakutengereni kanthaŵi kuti muzoloŵere, iwo amafunikira banja lachikondi ndi pogona monga momwe wina aliyense. Chifukwa chake, ngati mukuganiza zopeza mphaka watsopano, musatembenukire kumbuyo kwa yemwe akufunika kusamalidwa pang'ono - mutha kupeza posachedwa kuti ali wachikondi komanso wachikondi kuposa momwe mumaganizira, ndipo akhoza kukhala. zomwe mwakhala mukuzilakalaka.