Kodi kupanga ubwenzi ndi mphaka?

Tikapeza mphaka, timaganizira momwe zidzagonere pamiyendo yathu ndikudzutsa m'mawa ndi purr yofatsa. Koma zenizeni zikukonzekera zochitika zina: tinthu tating'onoting'ono timawombedwa kwenikweni ndi chiweto, ndipo chimakula mosagwirizana ndipo chimakonda kuposa chilichonse padziko lapansi kukwera komwe sichingafike. N’chifukwa chiyani zimenezi zikuchitika?

Mphaka aliyense ndi payekha, aliyense ali ndi khalidwe lake komanso khalidwe lake. Ziweto zina zimakondana kwambiri, zina zochepa, ndipo zina zimaoneka kuti sizikusowa chikondi. Simudziwa bwino zomwe chiweto chanu chidzakhala nacho, koma mawonekedwe amtundu adzakuthandizani kuchepetsa mwayi wokhumudwa. Aphunzireni mosamala musanakhazikike pa mtundu winawake.

Ngati mphaka amapewa eni ake, amawaopa ndikuwonetsa nkhanza, ndiye kuti wavulala ndipo zimatenga nthawi kuti azolowere. Zikatero, simungathe kuchita popanda thandizo la zoopsychologist amene angakuthandizeni kupeza njira ya osauka ndi kukonza khalidwe lake.

Pamene khalidwe "lozizira" la chiweto limayamba chifukwa cha makhalidwe, osati kupwetekedwa mtima, mungathe, koma mosamala, kuyambitsa kuukira! Malangizo athu adzakuthandizani.

• Lemekezani ufulu wake!

Choyipa kwambiri chomwe mungachite ndi chiweto chosagwirizana ndikuchikhudza mwakuthupi: kuchigwira m'manja mwanu, kuchimenya mosafuna, kapena kugwiritsa ntchito mphamvu kuti mumulange. Zonsezi zipangitsa kuti mphaka akhale wamakani kwambiri kuti akupeweni.

Ngati muwona kuti chiweto sichikufuna kulankhula nanu panthawiyi, musamukakamize kutero. Ali kunyumba, ndipo ayenera kukhala womasuka. Kupanikizika sikuthandiza pa ubwenzi. Koma mphaka wodekha, wodalirika posachedwa ayamba kuwonetsa chidwi ndikulumikizana.

• Dzidziwitseni nokha!

Timasankha anzathu malinga ndi zomwe timakonda, komanso amphaka.

Mlenje wapakhomo adzafuna kupanga mabwenzi ndi mwiniwake wachilungamo, woleza mtima komanso wosamala, yemwe, ngakhale pa maphunziro, amasonyeza chifundo komanso kukhwima. Amphaka salola kukweza mawu awo ndi chilango chakuthupi. Musamayembekezere kukhala bwenzi la chiweto chomwe mumatulutsa.

Lankhulani ndi chiweto chanu mwachikondi, mumuyitanire kwa inu (ngakhale sakufulumira kulumphira pachifuwa), muitanitse kuti azisewera (zoseweretsa zokondweretsa amphaka zidzakuthandizani kwambiri ndi izi). Musataye mtima ngati poyamba khama lanu silibweretsa zotsatira zooneka. Pamene mukusamalira mphaka, iye pang'onopang'ono amakuzolowerani. Kuleza mtima ndi ntchito zidzagaya chilichonse, mukukumbukira?

• Pangani mphaka wanu kufuna kubwera kwa inu

Cholinga chathu si kukakamiza mphaka, koma kuonetsetsa kuti iye mwini abwera chifukwa cha iye. Osati ntchito yosavuta, koma poyang'ana koyamba!

Choyamba muyenera kupanga mphaka zosangalatsa mayanjano kukhudzana ndi inu. Kulimbikitsana ndikofunikira pano, ndipo chilimbikitso chabwino kwambiri ndikuchiza, chifukwa chilimbikitso chazakudya ndicho champhamvu kwambiri. Perekani chiweto chanu chakudya kuchokera m'manja mwanu. M'kupita kwa nthawi, pamene mphaka ayamba kutenga mankhwala m'manja mwanu molimba mtima, yambani mokoma stroking izo.

Zimachitika kuti chiweto chawonongeka ndi zakudya ndipo sichifulumira kuthamangira kwa mwiniwake. Timapanga kusuntha kwa Knight ndikupeza chisangalalo chapadera ndi kukoma kwatsopano kwa mphaka. Izi ziyenera kukhala zakudya zapadera zamphaka, osati chakudya chapa tebulo! Ndodo "Zokoma" ndi zonona zamadzimadzi "Mnyams" zadziwonetsa bwino: iyi ndi mizere yatsopano yokhala ndi zokometsera zowala komanso mawonekedwe abwino.

• Osakakamiza zochitika

Kuthamanga ndi njira yoyipa. Perekani mphaka wanu nthawi yochuluka momwe akufunira. Khalani wolimbikira, koma osalowerera. Ubwenzi, womangidwa m'malo omasuka pang'onopang'ono, ndi wamphamvu kwambiri!

• Samalirani ubwenzi wanu

Ndizosavuta kukhumudwitsa ndikuwopseza chiweto. Ngati agalu, mwachitsanzo, ali ofulumira, ndiye amphaka amakumbukira chipongwe. Samalirani chiweto chanu, phunzirani kumvetsetsa ndipo musakhumudwe. Iye adzayamikiradi!