Kodi kupanga ubwenzi ndi akalulu?

• M'badwo woyenera
  

Akalulu okongoletsera amapeza chinenero chofanana ndi mzake mofulumira kuposa akuluakulu. Choncho, ngati n'kotheka, tengani akalulu awiri nthawi imodzi, osakwana miyezi itatu. Ana sanakhalebe ndi malingaliro okhudzana ndi malo ndi kugonana, zomwe zikutanthauza kuti pali zifukwa zochepa kwambiri za mikangano.

• Kusankha awiri oyenera
  

Kodi akalulu adzakhala mabwenzi? Kodi tikukamba za akalulu otani? Amuna awiri akuluakulu osathedwa mu khola limodzi sangagwirizane. Azimayi awiri akuluakulu angayambenso kupikisana. Ndi bwino kusankha anansi motsatira ndondomeko zotsatirazi:

- Mwamuna ndi mkazi mmodzi mokakamizidwa kuthedwa mwamuna (pafupifupi miyezi isanu ndi umodzi). Inde, ngati mukufuna kuswana, kuthena kudzathetsedwa, koma pamenepa, akalulu ayenera kusungidwa mosiyana ndi mzake.

- Amuna awiri othena. Ndi bwino ngati ali mabwenzi kuyambira ubwana. Komabe, amuna akuluakulu othenedwa amakhala mabwenzi apamtima. Komabe, nthawi zina izi zingatenge nthawi.

M'modzi wothena wamwamuna ndi wamkazi awiri. Ngati mukufuna kukhala ndi akalulu atatu, kuphatikiza uku ndikwabwino. Pagulu la amuna osabereka ndi akazi awiri, mikangano ndiyosowa kwambiri. Ndipo ngati atero, amakhala ophiphiritsa.

• Makhalidwe ofanana
  

Yesani kusankha anansi molingana ndi chikhalidwe. Izi zimakhala zosavuta kuchita akalulu akakula kale. Ngati kalulu wanu ali wodekha komanso wodekha, mupatseni yemweyo wachete: Kalulu wamphamvu kwambiri angayambe kumupondereza. Mwina zotsutsana zimakopa, koma zikasungidwa mu khola lomwelo, izi sizigwira ntchito.

• Kudziwa pa gawo losalowerera ndale
  

Msonkhano woyamba wa akalulu omwe adzakhala mu khola lomwelo uyenera kuchitika pa gawo lopanda ndale. Ngati nthawi yomweyo muyika mlendo mu khola ndi kalulu wanu, mikangano siyingapeweke. Kalulu wakale amateteza gawo lake mwakhama, ngakhale kuti pansi pamtima akufuna kupeza mabwenzi. Ndi nkhani ya ulemu!

Malo abwino oti akalulu akumane ndi akalulu awiri ndi bwalo la ndege lomwe lili ndi malo pafupifupi masikweya mita atatu, momwe palibe nyama yomwe idakhalapo. Danga ili lidzakhala lokwanira kuti nyama zizilankhulana, ndipo zikatero zimatha kupumula wina ndi mnzake. Kwa kalulu aliyense wowonjezera, wina 3 sq.m. danga.

Akalulu amatha kukhala m'bwalo la ndege kwa masiku angapo kapena masabata. Zonse zimadalira liwiro la kukhazikitsa kukhudzana. Ziweto zikangoyamba kudya ndikupumira limodzi, zitha kuikidwa mu khola. Musadabwe ngati ubale wapakati pawo ukuchepa pang'ono nthawi yoyamba mutamuika. Izi ndi zachilendo, chifukwa m'malo atsopano ayenera "kusintha" utsogoleri wokhazikitsidwa.

Nthawi zambiri, ubale wamphamvu pakati pa akalulu umakhazikitsidwa mkati mwa milungu 2-3. Nthawi zina zimatenga mwezi umodzi. Sungani chipiriro.

Akafika m'gawo lomwelo, akalulu awiri osadziwika adzayamba kukhazikitsa utsogoleri pakati pawo. Amatha kudumphana, kuthamangitsana mozungulira mpanda ngakhalenso kuthyola ubweya wa nkhosa. Osadandaula, ichi ndi khalidwe lachilengedwe ndipo nyama zimangofuna nthawi. Zoonadi, ngati zifika pa nkhanza zazikulu ndi "magazi", akalulu amafunika kukhala pansi. Bwerezani wodziwana naye patapita kanthawi, kenako kachiwiri. Ngati zonse sizinaphule kanthu, yang'anani oyandikana nawo akalulu.

• Ndi akalulu angati oti asunge mu khola limodzi?
  

Ndi akalulu angati omwe angasungidwe mu khola limodzi? Yankho la funsoli limadalira chikhumbo cha mwiniwake, kukula kwa khola ndi kugwirizana kwa oyandikana nawo. Nthawi zambiri, akalulu osapitilira 3 amasungidwa ngati ziweto, nthawi zambiri awiri.

• Malo ambiri amakhala bwino
  

Nthawi zambiri akalulu amasemphana maganizo chifukwa chomangidwa mosayenera. Mwachitsanzo, chifukwa cha kusowa kwa malo mu khola. Mukamakhala ndi akalulu ambiri, khola liyenera kukhala lalikulu. Ziweto ziyenera kuyenda momasuka mozungulira khola, kutambasula mpaka kutalika kwake ndikusewera. Ngati akalulu akuyenda pamitu ya wina ndi mzake, mikangano ndi zina, mavuto aakulu kwambiri amayamba. Sinthani mawu anu mwachangu.

• Kumbukirani kuyenda!
  

Ziribe kanthu momwe khola liri lalikulu, akalulu amafunika kumasulidwa tsiku ndi tsiku kuti ayende kuzungulira nyumba kapena ndege. Nyama zimenezi zimayendayenda kwambiri, ndipo zimafunika kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi kuti zikhale zathanzi komanso zathanzi. Koma musaiwale malamulo achitetezo. Popanda iwo, palibe!

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