Mwamuna safuna galu: chochita?

Mwakhala mukulakalaka kukhala ndi kagalu. Ndipo tsopano, zikuwoneka, zonse zikubwera palimodzi: nyumba zimalola, ndi mwayi wandalama, ndi nthawi. Vuto limodzi: mwamuna. Zomwe zimati: "kaya galu - kapena ine." Ndipo simunakonzekere chisudzulo. Zotani zikatero?

Inde, mukhoza kutenga mwayi ndi kutenga galu, ndiyeno muyike mwamuna wanu patsogolo. Pali nthawi zina pamene mwamuna kapena mkazi, atatha kung'ung'udza kwa masiku angapo, amazolowera nyumba yatsopano ndipo amayamba kumusamalira, ndiyeno amakhala mabwenzi apamtima. Koma iyi ndi njira yowopsa. Ndipo mutha kuyang'anizana ndi kusankha: kaya galu kapena moyo wabanja.

Kuonjezera apo, sikuloledwa kutenga galu ngati mmodzi wa m'banja akutsutsa. Mikangano yosalekeza ndi mikangano m'banja imasokoneza thanzi la chiweto, zomwe zimayambitsa kupsinjika ndi matenda.

Komanso, munthu amene ankatsutsana ndi maonekedwe a nyama m’nyumbamo angayambe kutulutsa mkwiyo wake pa cholengedwa chosalakwa. Kodi ndinu wokonzeka kuwononga galu ku moyo wotero?

Ngati mukufunabe kupeza galu, koma mwamuna wanu akutsutsa, yesani fufuzani chomwe chiri chifukwa chakusafuna kwake.

Iye mwina sali wokonzeka kusamalira galu, ndiyeno mudzayenera kumutsimikizira kuti mavuto onse okhudzana ndi izi adzagwera pa mapewa anu - ndikuchitadi gawo ili la mgwirizano. Koma kodi mwakonzeka nokha? Ngati mumakonda kugona mpaka masana, ndipo mwamuna wanu akudziwa bwino za izi, sangakhulupirire kuti galu adzatembenuza moyo wanu, kotero kuti mantha ake alibe maziko.

Kapena mwinamwake mukukonzekera kukhala ndi mwana, ndipo mwamuna wanu akuwopa kuti galuyo angavulaze mwanayo. Pankhaniyi, muyenera kusonyeza wokondedwa wanu zitsanzo za moyo wabanja wachimwemwe ndi ana ndi galu, kunyamula chiweto cha mtundu woyenera kuchokera kwa woweta waluso, amathera nthawi yochuluka akulera ndi kuphunzitsa kagalu.

Ngati muli ndi ana, mukhoza kupuma pa mfundo yakuti poyenda galu, adzakupatsani mwayi wokhala pamodzi kwambiri. Komanso, agalu amathandiza kwambiri kulera ana. Inde, ngati ana kuchitira galu molondola.

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Mwina mwamuna kapena mkazi wanu wakumana ndi vuto ndi agalu kapena sakonda nyama zonse. Ngati mungathe kumutsimikizira kucheza ndi agalu ena (Mwachitsanzo, pitani ku chiwonetsero) ndikusintha lingaliro la nyama izi, pali mwayi woti asinthe malingaliro ake.

Kapena mwamuna kapena mkazi wanu sakonda mtundu umene mumakonda? Ndiye mukhoza kupeza kugwirizana ndikupeza chiweto chomwe chingafanane ndi aliyense.

Onani ziwerengero. Zimasonyeza kuti eni ziweto amakhala ndi moyo wautali komanso wathanzi kusiyana ndi eni ake.

Zifukwa zosafuna kupeza chiweto zingakhale zosawerengeka, pano sitingathe kuzilemba zonse. Zomwe siziyenera kuchitika ngati mwamuna sakufuna kutenga galu - ndi "kuvutitsa" mwamuna kapena mkazi, kumuchitira chipongwe komanso kumuimba mlandu wankhanza. Monga lamulo, njira zoterozo zimadzetsa chitsutso chokulirapo, ndipo ngakhale pambuyo pake atavomereza, zimenezi sizidzawonjezera chimwemwe m’banja. Galu ayenera kukhalabe chiwalo chokondedwa cha banja, osati cholemetsa.

Kodi munayamba mwamunyengerera mwamuna kapena mkazi wanu kuti atenge galu? Gawani nkhani zanu mu ndemanga!