Masiku oyamba a mphaka m'nyumba yatsopano, kapena masitepe 12 kuti asinthe bwino

Kwa mwana wa mphaka, kusamukira ku nyumba yatsopano ndi chochitika chosangalatsa komanso chosangalatsa kwambiri. Mwana wa mphaka aliyense amakhala ndi nkhawa akamasuntha, ndipo izi ndizabwinobwino. Yesetsani kudziyika nokha m'malo mwa nyenyeswa: adasweka ndi amayi ake, abale ndi alongo ake, adasiya nyumba yodziwika bwino, kenako adatengedwa kwinakwake kwa nthawi yayitali, ndipo tsopano adapezeka m'chipinda chosadziwika bwino ndi fungo latsopano. ndi anthu atsopano. Simungachite mantha bwanji?

Ntchito ya mwiniwake wosamalira ndi kuchepetsa kupsinjika maganizo kumeneku momwe angathere ndikuthandizira mwanayo mofatsa kuti agwirizane ndi mikhalidwe yatsopano.

Tikudziwa momwe tingachitire mu masitepe 12. Pitani?

• Khwerero 1. Pezani zonse zomwe mwana wa mphaka adzafune kwa nthawi yoyamba. Ichi ndi chakudya (mtundu umene mwana wa mphaka amadyetsedwa ndi woweta), mbale ziwiri (zamadzi ndi chakudya), kama wokhala ndi mbali zazitali, thireyi yokhala ndi matabwa, chonyamulira, zoseweretsa zingapo, positi yokanda, choyamba chathunthu. zida zothandizira, zodzoladzola ndi zida zodzikongoletsera. Mwana wa mphaka akawoneka m'nyumba mwanu, amafunikira chisamaliro chonse. Simudzakhala ndi nthawi yosankha katundu wina, choncho m'pofunika kukonzekera pasadakhale.
• Khwerero 2. Konzani nyumba pasadakhale kuti ziwonekere ngati mphaka. Patulani zingwe, chotsani zinthu zing'onozing'ono komanso zowopsa pamalo olowera pomwe chiweto chingakumane nacho. Onetsetsani kuti zinyalala, zinthu zapakhomo, mankhwala ndi zinthu zakuthwa zili kutali ndi mwanayo. Onetsetsani kuti mwayika zowonetsera zotsutsana ndi amphaka pamawindo ndikuyika chitetezo pazitseko zamkati kuti musatsine mwangozi zonyansazo. Ndi bwino kukonzekera malo otetezeka pasadakhale kuti pakapita nthawi palibe chomwe chingakusokonezeni pakupanga ubale wabwino, wodalirika ndi chiweto chanu.
• Gawo 3. Tengani masiku angapo. Kusiya chiweto m'chipinda chosadziwika chokha sikoyenera pa tsiku loyamba kapena awiri. Muyenera kumuthandiza kukhala omasuka pamalo atsopano ndikukhazikitsa malamulo akhalidwe. Kuyambira tsiku loyamba m'nyumba yatsopano, mwanayo amafunika kuphunzitsidwa ku tray, dzina lake lakutchulidwa, pabedi. Komanso, mphaka adzakhala chabe mantha. Iye amafunikira kwambiri munthu wake wachikondi ndi wachikondi kuposa ndi kale lonse.



• Khwerero 4. Funsani woweta chidole chogona, thewera kapena nsalu chomwe chimanunkhira ngati mayi wa mwana wa mphaka kapena nyumba yomwe mwanayo ankakhala. Ikani pa bedi la mwana. Fungo lodziwika bwino lidzamusangalatsa ndikumuthandiza kuzolowera malo atsopano.
• Gawo 5. Mudziwitseni mwana wanu kunyumba yatsopano mofatsa. Msiyeni akhazikike. Ngati poyamba mwana wa mphaka ataunjikana pakona yachinsinsi ndipo sakufuna kuchoka, izi ndi zachilendo. Muzichita bizinesi yanu modekha, mukuyang'ana mwana pakona ya diso lanu. Posachedwapa, chidwi chidzayamba, ndipo mwana wa mphaka adzapita kukayendera zinthu zake zatsopano.

Lolani mphaka kuti aziyang'ana pozungulira paokha. Yesetsani kuti musapange phokoso lalikulu ndipo musasokoneze ndondomekoyi mosayenera. Mwana wa mphaka adziyang'ane yekha.

• Khwerero 6. Samalirani kwambiri chilakolako chopita kuchimbudzi. Ngati mwana wa mphaka ali ndi nkhawa, amayamba kununkhiza, kuyang'ana malo achinsinsi, kukumba mabowo, m'malo mopita nawo ku tray. Ngati mulibe nthawi ndipo mwanayo wasokoneza kale, zilowerereni pepala lachimbudzi kapena nsalu yoyera mumkodzo ndikuyiyika mu tray. Malo omwe mphaka wachitirapo malonda ake ayenera kutsukidwa bwino ndi kuthandizidwa ndi anti-marking agent.

Poyamba, ndi bwino kugwiritsa ntchito chodzaza chomwe chinali mu tray m'nyumba yapitayi. Mutha kutenga chodzaza kuchokera muthireyi ya amayi a mphaka. Izi zidzathandiza mwanayo kumvetsa zomwe zili m'malo atsopano.

• Khwerero 7. Musapange zosokoneza zosafunikira. Yesetsani kusamba, kupita kwa veterinarian, ndi chithandizo china kwa masiku angapo ngati n'kotheka. Ngati mukufuna kuitana achibale ndi abwenzi kuti adziwane ndi mphaka, ndi bwino kuchita izi pakatha milungu ingapo, pamene mwanayo amakhala womasuka. Ngati muli ndi amphaka ena kapena galu, kuwadziwitsa za banja latsopano kuyeneranso kuimitsidwa. 
• Khwerero 8. Zakudya ziyenera kukhala zofanana. Ngakhale ngati simukukonda kwenikweni chakudya chimene mwiniwake wakale anapatsa mphaka, poyamba mwana wa mphaka ayenera kupatsidwa. Mwanayo akukumana kale ndi kupsinjika maganizo, ndipo kusintha zakudya ndizolemetsa kwambiri pa thupi. Ngati mukufuna kusintha chakudya, ndi bwino kutero pakapita nthawi yosintha. Musaiwale kuti kusintha kwa chakudya chatsopano kuyenera kukhala kosalala, mkati mwa masiku 10.
• Khwerero 9. Sankhani pasadakhale komwe mwana wa mphaka adzagone. Ngati mulibe nazo vuto kumuwona pa pilo ndipo mwakonzeka kukumana ndi vuto linalake, mukhoza kupita naye kukagona nanu. Ngati simuli choncho, pezani bedi la mphaka wokhala ndi mbali zazitali. Kutalikirana kumapangitsa kuti pakhale kukhazikika komanso kumverera kwachitetezo kwa mwana. Zidzakhala zabwino ngati mutayika zofunda zomwe zimanunkhiza ngati mayi wa mwana wa mphaka pampando. Zikuoneka kuti m'masiku oyambirira m'nyumba yatsopano, mwana wa mphaka adzafuula mokweza ndikupempha kuti akhale nanu. Ntchito yanu ndi kupulumuka, apo ayi mphaka sadzaphunzira kuti ayenera kugona pa kama. Mutha kufika kwa mphaka, kumusisita, kulankhula naye mwachikondi, kumuchitira zabwino ndi kusewera, koma iyenera kugona pakama pake. Ngati "mutaya" kamodzi ndikupita ku bedi lanu, ndiye kuti simungathe kumufotokozera kuti kulumpha pabedi ndi koipa.

• Gawo 10. Sungani zoseweretsa zosiyanasiyana ndikusewera ndi mphaka zambiri. Popanda izo, paliponse. Zoseweretsa sizongosangalatsa chabe, koma njira yosinthira, maphunziro, ndi kulumikizana. Onetsetsani kuti mwagula zoseweretsa zomwe mwana wa mphaka amatha kusewera yekha komanso ndi inu. Chisankho chabwino kwambiri - mitundu yonse yamasewera, mayendedwe amphaka, tunnel, masamba a timbewu tonunkhira komanso, zoseweretsa zodzaza ndi maswiti. Adzatha kutenga mwanayo kwa nthawi yaitali. Ndikofunika kwambiri kusankha zidole zapadera za amphaka, chifukwa. ali otetezeka kwa ziweto.
• Khwerero 11 Yang'anirani mphaka mwachangu momwe mungathere. Ngati mwana wa mphaka ali wotseguka kuti azitha kuyanjana ndi inu, muzimusisita, sewerani naye. Sonyezani mmene mumasangalalira ndi iye.
• Gawo 12. Kwezani Kumanja. Kodi kuleredwa koyenera ndi kotani? Mwachitsanzo, kumvetsetsa momwe mungathere komanso momwe simungathe kulanga mphaka. Chilango cholondola, ngati chiri chofunikira, ndi mawu okhwima panthawi ya khalidwe loipa. Chirichonse. Zikavuta kwambiri, mutha kulumikiza "zida zankhondo zolemera": kuwomba mokweza kapena botolo lopopera (mutha kuwaza madzi pa mphaka wopulumukira).

M’nyumba mwanu simuyenera kukhala kukuwa, mwano, ngakhalenso chilango chakuthupi. Uphungu wonga “kulowetsa nkhope yako m’chithaphwi” sikungogwira ntchito, ndi nkhanza zenizeni za nyama. M'malo oterowo, mphaka sadzakhala ndi mwayi uliwonse kuti ukule bwino ndi kukula. Mungamuwopsyeze kapena kumukwiyitsa.

Amphaka sadziwa momwe angapangire maubale oyambitsa ndi zotsatira. Mukabwera kunyumba kuchokera kuntchito ndikuwona chithaphwi kapena vuto lina, musayese nkomwe kulanga mphaka. Sadzamvetsetsa chifukwa chake akulangidwa, ndipo mudzangomuopseza, kuwononga ubale wanu. Mutha kuphunzitsa kokha panthawi yolakwira, pano ndi pano.

Ndipo potsiriza. Sungani zakudya zathanzi. Palibe ambiri a iwo. Lipirani mphaka ndi chithandizo cha khalidwe labwino ndi monga choncho, popanda chifukwa. Iyi ndiye njira yabwino kwambiri yomusangalatsira! Muzochitika zilizonse zosamvetsetseka, khalani omasuka kuitana katswiri wa zoopsychologist: izi sizowonjezera, koma zochita zolondola za mwiniwake wodalirika. Ndi bwino kufunsira ndi kuchita moyenera kusiyana ndi kupeza zolakwika za maphunziro m'tsogolomu.

Ndipo ife, monga nthawizonse, timakhulupirira mwa inu. Mphaka wanu ndiwomwayi kwambiri kukhala nanu!