Ufulu wosankha galu kuyenda

Kalanga, moyo wa ziweto zathu nthawi zambiri zimakonzedwa mwanjira yakuti iwo alibe chochita. Timasankha kuti ndi liti, zimene adzachita, ndi mmene angachitire, kumene amakhala, zimene adzadye, ndi nthawi yoyenda. Inde, izi zimatsimikiziridwa ndi kulingalira za chitetezo ndi chitonthozo chathu. Komabe, kusowa kosankha kumakhudza kwambiri galuyo. Zoyenera kuchita?

N’chifukwa chiyani galu amafunikira kusankha

Monga ndanenera, kusowa kwa chisankho kungawononge thanzi la galu. Zoonadi, m’mikhalidwe yoteroyo, mnzathu wa miyendo inayi sangathe kulamulira dziko limene akukhalamo. Izi zimapangitsa munthu kukhala wosatetezeka komanso kumawonjezera nkhawa.

Kusankha, kumbali ina, kumapatsa galu mphamvu yolamulira. Ndipo zimenezo zikutanthauza chitetezo chowonjezereka. Galu amakhala wodekha, kuchuluka kwa nkhawa kumachepa. Ndipo kudzidalira kumawonjezeka. Galu wodzidalira kwambiri, mwa zina, ndi wotetezeka kwa ena.

Koma, ndithudi, sitingathe kupereka chiweto ndi ufulu wosankha mu chirichonse. Kodi kuchita izo mosamala? Njira imodzi ndiyo kupereka zosankha pazinthu zina zamayendedwe.

Momwe mungapatse galu wanu ufulu wosankha pamayendedwe

Choyamba, mukhoza kulola galu kusankha njira ya ulendo. Inde, m'malo otetezeka. Malamulo ofunikira: sitiuza galu njirayo ndi chingwe, kapena ndi thupi lathu, kapena ndi maso athu.

Ngati chiwetocho chinali chitaletsedwa kale kusankha, poyamba akhoza kusokonezeka. Koma pang'onopang'ono adzazolowera ndikuyamba kukupatsani njira zambiri zatsopano. Ndipo sangalalani ndi kuyenda. Mwa njira, mungakondenso, chifukwa njirayi imapangitsa kuti muphunzire zinthu zambiri zosangalatsa za chiweto. Ndipo pitani kumalo omwe mwina simungawadziwe mwanjira ina.  

Kuphatikiza apo, zimakulolani kuti mupatse galu katundu wothandiza waluntha. Zoonadi, pakuyenda koteroko, galu amafufuza zambiri ndipo amatopa "mwanjira yabwino".

Njira imeneyi ili ndi malire. Zochita izi sizoyenera kwa agalu omwe amakhudzidwa kwambiri ndi zolimbikitsa, komanso kwa agalu omwe ali ndi mantha pamsewu - kumayambiriro kwa ntchito.

Kachiwiri, mutha kupatsa galu ufulu wosankha kulankhulana ndi achibale. Inde, aliyense amakumbukira (ndikuyembekeza) kuti kuvomereza kwa eni ake ndikofunikira kuti agalu azilankhulana. Koma ambiri amadabwa kumva kuti maganizo a agalu ndi ofunikanso.

Kodi chiweto chanu chimafuna kulankhulana ndi uyu kapena wachibale uyo? Kodi amamasuka kulankhula? Kuti tiyankhe mafunsowa, m'pofunika kuwunika khalidwe ndi thupi chinenero agalu. Ndipo m'kupita kwa nthawi kusiya kulankhulana, zomwe zimakhala zovuta kwa aliyense wa omwe akutenga nawo mbali.