njira kucheza mphaka

Kuyanjana kwa mphaka m'banja latsopano kumafuna kuleza mtima kwakukulu monga chikondi kwa iye. Ngakhale mphaka wachikulire wotengedwa kumalo osungira nyama amatha kuchita mantha, kudzipatula, kapena kusokonezeka pamaso pa anzake apakhomo, ngakhale kuti amalandiridwadi. Pansipa mupeza malangizo amomwe mungatengere nthawi yanu ndikupatsa mphaka wanu malo okwanira kuti amuthandize kudziwa nyumba yake yatsopano komanso anthu okhalamo.

1. Mwayi woyendera gawolo.

Mukasintha mphaka ku nyumba yatsopano, ntchito yanu ndikuyang'ana momwe zinthu ziliri m'maso mwake: ali ndi mantha, chifukwa anali pamalo osadziwika kumene "zimphona" (inu ndi banja lanu) zimakhala, zomwe nthawi zonse zimayesetsa kugwira ndi kugwira. kumukumbatira. Izi zitha kukhala zosapiririka, makamaka amphaka amantha. Chifukwa chake auzeni achibale anu kuti asasokoneze chiweto chatsopano chomwe chikuyang'ana nyumba yanu. Zimatenga nthawi kuti mphaka aphunzire kununkhiza, kuyang'ana pozungulira, ndipo pamapeto pake adziwe malo abwino obisalamo. Izi zidzamulola kuti adziwe zipinda za ndani, ndikupanga "mapu" ake a nyumba yatsopano m'mutu mwake.

2. Chimphona chokoma mtima.

Poyamba, aliyense m’banjamo ayenera kukhala chete kapena kusamala nkhani zakezake. Mphaka akakuyandikirani, tsitsani dzanja lanu pang'onopang'ono kuti mphaka azitha kununkhiza. Popanda kusuntha mwadzidzidzi, yambani kusisita kumbuyo kwake. Ngati alola, mgonereni kumaso: iyinso ndi njira yabwino yolankhulira moni, chifukwa chotere mphaka adzakupatsani fungo lake, potero amakulembani ngati bwenzi. Yang'anani mchira wake: nayo, chiweto chikuwonetsa nkhawa kapena malingaliro. Mchira wonse umatha kudziwa zambiri zokhudza mphaka.

3. Mphaka ayenera kukuzolowerani.

Ngati kwa nthawi ndithu mphaka wakhala akubisala kapena sanaonepo anthu ena, iye akhoza kachiwiri kuchita mantha pamaso pawo, ngati kuti ndi alendo. Uzani achibale anu ndi anzanu kuti amulole kuti asamavutike nazo. Katswiri wamakhalidwe amphaka a Marilyn Krieger akuwonetsa kuti atambasule chala choyamba. Zingatengere mphindi zochepa kuti mphaka akhazikitse (kapena kukhazikitsanso) kugwirizana pakati pa fungo ili ndi munthu wina. Komabe, pamene kukhudzana kwakhazikitsidwa, adzakudziwitsani mwa kukusisitani, kukunyozani kapena kulira mokondwera ngati chizindikiro cha moni. 

4. Malo otetezeka amphaka.

Pocheza, chiweto chiyenera kukhala ndi malo otetezeka pamene chingakhale ndi mantha. Ndikofunika kwa mphaka osati kwa nthawi yoyamba, komanso m'tsogolomu, pamene ali kale bwino pamalo atsopano. Pazifukwa izi, ndi bwino nthawi yomweyo kuyika bokosi kapena chonyamulira m'chipindamo. Ikani chopukutira kapena chinachake chofewa mkati mwake kuti agwedezeke. Bokosi la makatoni ndiloyeneranso udindo wa pogona. Dulani chitseko mmenemo kuti mphaka alowe ndi kutuluka mosavuta. Mothandizidwa ndi pogona woteroyo, mphaka adzakuzolowerani ndikuyamba kukukhulupirirani.

5. Limbikitsani makhalidwe abwino, nyalanyazani zina zonse.

Mphaka wanu akatuluka kuti akufufuzeni inu ndi banja lanu, muyamikireni, muwachitire, ndikuweta mofatsa. Ngati akubisala, ingonyalanyazani ndipo musayese kumutulutsa m’nyumbamo. Pamayanjano, ndikofunikira kulimbikitsa khalidwe lofunidwa ndikungonyalanyaza zosafunika. Mphaka akafuna kukuwonetsani chikondi chake, khalani tcheru: kuyankha kwanu kumatsimikizira ngati adzakhala wamanyazi kapena kukhala wolimba mtima.

6. Njira yokhulupirira ndi kudzera mwachizolowezi.

Kuyanjana kwa mphaka kumakhala kosavuta akazolowera kuti ena amachita zodziwikiratu kuyambira pachiyambi pomwe. Izi zimamupangitsa kukhala wotetezeka podziwa zomwe angayembekezere kuchokera kwa alendo ndi apakhomo. Achibale, omwe chiwetocho chimawawona pafupipafupi, ayenera kuweta ndi kudyetsa mphaka nthawi zonse. Izi zingathandize kuti azolowere nawo komanso kuwakumbukira mofulumira. Dyetsani mphaka wanu pafupipafupi kuti adziwe kuti mutha kudaliridwa komanso kukhala ndi nkhawa. Chakudya, monga mwamvetsetsa kale, ndi mthandizi wamkulu pakupanga ubale wabwino ndi nyama.

Khalani pafupi ndi mphaka momwe mungathere popanda kukhudzana nawo mwachindunji. Osamukakamiza kuti azisewera kapena kubwera kwa inu. Onerani TV m'chipinda chimodzi ndi iye kapena werengani buku. Kuthera nthawi yochuluka m'chipinda chimodzi ndi nyama, posachedwa mudzakwaniritsa kuti mphaka idzakula molimba mtima ndikubwera kwa inu.

Mwina ndi cliché, komabe: tengani nthawi yanu. Amphaka ali ngati anthu m'njira imodzi yokha: amatha kukhala ochezeka, amanyazi, aukali, komanso osasamala. Kutengera ndi umunthu wapadera wa chiweto chanu, akhoza kugwirizana ndi banja nthawi yomweyo kapena kutenga masiku angapo. Osayamba kuchitapo kanthu m'manja mwanu: simungathe kukakamiza mphaka chikondi ndi chikondi pomwe iye sanakukondeni. Ngati muli ndi ziweto kale, werengani nkhani yathu yodziwitsa mphaka wanu watsopano kwa nyama zina.