N’chifukwa chiyani mphaka amasumira pabedi?

 Eni amphaka ena amakumana ndi mfundo yakuti mphaka amasumira pa bedi la mmodzi wa anthu a m'banjamo, ndipo eni ake amawona kuti vutoli ndi lalikulu kwambiri. 

Pakhoza kukhala zifukwa zingapo za khalidweli, mwachitsanzo, matenda. Koma chimodzi mwa zifukwa zodziwika bwino ndikuti mphaka amakodola pakama wa munthu amene amakangana naye. Izi zimachitika nthawi zambiri, ndipo nthawi zambiri anthu amati amphaka ali ndi zolinga zolakwika: kubwezera kapena kuyesa "kulanda gawo".

Kodi mphaka akufuna kutiuza chiyani pa kujowina pabedi?

Amphaka ali ndi zotupa zafungo m'matupi awo onse. Ndi chithandizo chawo, purrs imasiya zizindikiro ndikulankhulana pogwiritsa ntchito fungo. Mphaka ali ndi njira zitatu zosiyira chizindikiro:

1. Pakani mlomo wanu pa chinachake kapena munthu.
2. Kala china chake ndi zikhadabo zanu (monga positi yokanda kapena sofa yanu yachikopa yomwe mumakonda).
3. Siyani chizindikiro ndi mkodzo. Ichi ndiye chizindikiro champhamvu kwambiri, ndipo mphaka amasunga kuti asamavutike kwambiri.

 Zolemba ndizosavuta kusokoneza ndi kulumikizana kwafungo. Mwachitsanzo, mphaka amakupaka pakamwa pake akamakumana nanu - ichi si chizindikiro, koma ndi manja achikondi omwe cholinga chake ndi kusinthanitsa fungo ndi inu. Tsopano tiyeni tiyerekeze kuti mphaka amakhala ndi galu ndipo amaopa galu ameneyu. Kodi abwera kwa galu kuti akamusisite? Inde sichoncho. Zomwezo zimachitikanso ndi munthu. Ngati munthu akukhala m'nyumba yomwe mphaka amakangana naye, ndiye kuti ngakhale mphaka akufuna kukhazikitsa mtendere ndi munthu uyu, sangathe kungobwera ndikumunyoza, chifukwa amamuopa ndipo amamuchitira. osamukhulupirira.

Ndiko kuti, mu chithunzi cha mphaka wa dziko, ndi kuyesa kukhazikitsa ubale ndi munthu. Zotsatira zake, zimakhala ngati mwambi wakuti: Ndinkafuna zabwino, zidapezeka ... sizinali bwino. 

 Munthu amabwera, amawona kuti bedi limanunkhira ngati mkodzo wa mphaka, ndipo pazifukwa zina sakondwera konse ndi izi. Inde, wina akhoza kumumvetsa - izi sizosangalatsa, koma mphaka samvetsa chifukwa chake sakukhutitsidwanso naye, ndipo amalowa m'maganizo kwambiri. Mkanganowo umasunthira kumlingo watsopano, ndipo bwalo loyipa limapangidwa, ndipo zinthu zikuipiraipira.

Zoyenera kuchita ngati mphaka akodzera pabedi?

Ngati chifukwa chake ndi chakuti mukusemphana ndi mphaka wanu ndipo akuyesera kumanga ubale motere, zotsatirazi zidzakuthandizani.

• Kupatulapo zilango zonse, kukuwa, ndi zina zotero, kuti musapangitsenso kukhumudwa kwa mphaka.
• Tsekani mphaka kulowa pabedi. M'malo mwake, mukhoza kumupatsa, mwachitsanzo, T-shirt yakale yomwe ili ndi fungo la munthu woyenera. Kotero mphaka m'malo odekha azitha kuphatikiza fungo lake ndi laumunthu popanda kugwiritsa ntchito zida zolemetsa.
• Chitani zonse zotheka kuti mupange ubale ndi mphaka: idyetseni (ngati wina adachitapo kale), sewera nayo, idyetseni ngati ikukhudzana.

 Ngati mphaka akumva otetezeka pafupi ndi "vuto" munthu, sizingakhale zomveka kuti azikodzera pabedi lake.