Mphaka m'nyumba: kuphunzitsa kapena kukambirana?

Lamulo lofunikira pakulera bwino amphaka ndikunyalanyaza zoyipa, kulimbikitsa zabwino. Tidazolowera kuwona kunyalanyaza ngati chinthu chokhala ndi minus sign. Koma pankhani ya wadi wonyezimira, ndiye za kusayang'ana zoyipa, osati kulimbikitsa chiweto kuti chisachite bwino.

Tangolingalirani mkhalidwewo. Mwatanganidwa tsiku lonse, mphaka amasiyidwa yekha. Koma atangoyamba kuluma kapena kuluma miyendo yanu, mwakonzeka kusiya chirichonse ndikumvetsera paka. Ndipo zilibe kanthu kuti "chidwi" ichi chidzakhala chotani: kukwiya kapena kusangalatsidwa mwatsopano. Mphakayo ankafuna chidwi chanu - ndipo munayang'ana nyambo iyi. “Izo zinagwira ntchito!", - amatengera mphaka. Nthawi ina akapanda chidwi, adzayambanso kusewera pranks, chifukwa nthawi yapitayi ndi momwe adapezera zomwe ankafuna. Choncho eni ake, mosadziwa, amalimbikitsa khalidwe loipa la ziweto.

Palibe chifukwa chakuchita chiwawa ku khalidwe losayenera, kupsa mtima, ndipo ngakhale zilango zambiri. Amphaka sangamvetse zomwe mukufuna kwa iwo. Chilango chimalimbikitsa amphaka kuti asakukhulupirireni komanso kuti azichita molakwika makamaka pamene mulibe.

Nanga bwanji kulimbikitsa zabwino? Ndizovuta, koma zimabweretsa zotsatira zamtengo wapatali. Nthawi iliyonse chiweto chanu chikuchita bwino, mupatseni chithandizo ndi chitamando. Ngakhale mphaka sakuchita chilichonse chapadera. Kodi samatafuna maluwa, samataya zinthu zanu pamalo osungiramo usiku, samadya masekondi asanu aliwonse, koma amangokhala chete pafupi ndi inu? Zabwino, wachita bwino, ndi khalidwe lodekha lotere lomwe liyenera kulimbikitsidwa ndi chithandizo. Tidzasiya zinthu kwa mphindi imodzi, tipeze chakudya ndikuchipereka kwa mphaka. Fulumirani asanagwerenso. Iyi ndiyo njira yowonjezera yowonjezera.

Kusankhidwa kwabwino kwa amphaka omwe khalidwe lawo mukugwira nawo ntchito ndilofunika kwambiri. Kulimbitsa bwino kumagwira ntchito pamene mphaka amasangalala kwambiri ndi chithandizo. Yesani mitundu ingapo yazakudya ndikuwona kuti ndi iti yomwe imapangitsa wodi yanu kukhala yosangalatsa kwambiri. Ndikwabwino kusankha chithandizo ngati tinthu tating'onoting'ono kuti mphaka akhale ndi nthawi yoti adye mwachangu ndikudzikonzera yekha: "Apa ndi pamene ine ndichita zonse bwino ndi pamene ine ndidzalandira mphotho".

Kuti mumvetsetse chiweto chanu, muyenera kuphunzira chilankhulo chawo. Pali mabuku ndi zolemba zambiri za psychology ya nyama zomwe zingakuthandizeni pa izi. Kuti kuyankhulana ndi ward kukhale kogwirizana, muyenera kuwerenga zizindikiro izi. Tiyeni titenge chitsanzo. Mwiniwake amasisita mphakawo mwamakina, akumaganizira zina. Ndipo maganizo a bwenzi laubweya akhoza kusintha mumasekondi angapo. Ngati mwiniwakeyo sanaulule m’mitambo, akanaona kuti mphaka atamukwapula kasanu kapena kasanu ndi kamodzi, anamuuza kuti asiye kugwiritsa ntchito mawu olankhula thupi. Mphaka amawombera, akuyang'ana mmbuyo pa dzanja lanu, akugwedeza makutu ake, amagwedeza khungu lake - ndipo ichi ndi chizindikiro chotsimikizika kuti sichiyeneranso kuchikhudza. Osagwira wadi m'manja mwanu ngati akufuna kuchoka.

Yesetsani kuti musakakamize chiweto chanu kuchita zinazake, koma kumulimbikitsa kuti achitepo kanthu kwa inu.

Ngati mphaka akuwonetsa mwadzidzidzi, koma simukuwona kufotokozera kwa izi, muyenera kusonyeza bwenzi lanu la miyendo inayi mwamsanga kwa veterinarian. Aliyense amakwiya ngati chinachake chikupweteka. Ngati veterinarian, kutengera zotsatira za mayeso ndi mayeso, adatsimikiza kuti ward yanu ili yathanzi, timabwerera ku nkhani zamakhalidwe. Njira yabwino ingakhale kufunafuna thandizo la akatswiri kwa zoopsychologist. Nthawi zambiri eni ake samamvetsetsa zolinga za khalidwe la abwenzi a miyendo inayi, choncho amalakwitsa zomwezo pamaphunziro. Katswiriyo adzatha kulingalira chithunzi cha ubale wa banja ndi chiweto chonse ndikuzindikira vutoli.

Nthawi zambiri eni ake samamvetsetsa zolinga za khalidwe la abwenzi a miyendo inayi, choncho amalakwitsa zomwezo pamaphunziro. Katswiriyo adzatha kulingalira chithunzi cha ubale wa banja ndi chiweto chonse ndikuzindikira vutoli.

Chifukwa chachikulu chaukali chingakhale maziko. Mwachitsanzo, phokoso lokhazikika la njanji pafupi ndi kumene mumakhala. Koma chinthu chinanso chingakhale udzu womalizira m’kuleza mtima kwa mphaka.

Nthawi zambiri pali apatutsira nkhanza. Mphaka amaopa chinthu chomwe amawopa kukana. Choncho, amachotsa zoipa kwa munthu amene saopa kukanda kapena kuluma. Mphaka sangatuluke m'nyumba, chifukwa galu wamkulu wa mnansi adzamuuwa pabwalo. Koma chifukwa cha kupsinjika maganizo ndi mantha, akhoza kulola kumamatira mwendo wanu ndi zikhadabo zake. Mulibe chochita nazo, mphaka chabe adalowa m'mavuto, ndipo munali pafupi. Nthawi zotere zimazindikiridwa ndi katswiri wa zoopsychologist.

Katswiri wamakhalidwe a ziweto angakuuzeni momwe mungakwezere mphaka wanu popanda kutaya chikhulupiriro chake.

Tengani nkhanza za chiweto chanu mozama ndipo musazitenge ngati masewera. Nkhanza nthawi zonse zimakhala ndi chifukwa. Khalidwe lotere liyenera kuwongoleredwa, makamaka pambuyo pa chochitika chimodzi kapena ziwiri.

Nthawi zambiri amphaka amakonda kuwononga zinthu chifukwa cha kunyong'onyeka, kusowa chidwi ndi chidwi, kufuna kufufuza dziko. Zomwe zimawoneka ngati khalidwe loipa kumbali yanu ndikungokwaniritsa zosowa zachilengedwe za mphaka. Ganizirani ngati mumapatsa mphaka wanu zolimbitsa thupi zokwanira komanso zolimbitsa thupi. 

Ntchito yanu sikuletsa, koma kupereka njira yotetezeka kwa mnzanu wamiyendo inayi yemwe akufuna kutaya mphamvu zambiri.

Amphaka amafunika kusaka, kupeza zatsopano, kulankhulana ndi eni ake. Yendani mphaka wanu atavala zingwe, onerani makanema osangalatsa ndi amphaka ena ndi amphaka limodzi, amphaka ambiri amasangalala kuwonera makanema okhudza nyama zakuthengo. Masewerawa athandizira kukhutiritsa chibadwa chakusaka. Perekani chiweto chanu mitundu yosiyanasiyana ya zoseweretsa. Zoseweretsa zokhala ndi zokometsera mkati, ndodo zoseketsa zokhala ndi michira ya nthenga, zoseweretsa zokhala ndi kudzaza kwa catnip kuti ma mustachioed athe kukonza ndewu popanda malamulo.

Masewera okhala ndi zakudya kapena zakudya zouma mkati ndizopindulitsa kwambiri amphaka. Amakhala nawo kwa nthawi yayitali, amawapangitsa kukhala anzeru, amawapangitsa kumva ngati opusa. Ndipo zidole zophunzitsira zotere zimaphunzitsa mphaka kudya pang'onopang'ono komanso kudya pang'onopang'ono. Chifukwa cha chidutswa chilichonse cha chakudya muyenera kugwira ntchito mwakhama, kotero kuti chakudya chimatambasula kwa nthawi yaitali. Akatswiri amalangiza makamaka kupatsa zoseweretsa zothandiza ngati ziweto zomwe zapeza mapaundi angapo owonjezera.

Anthu nthawi zambiri amadandaula kuti moyo wonse wasanduka Tsiku la Groundhog, tsiku lina ndi lofanana ndi lina. Kwa amphaka, ndizosiyana ndendende. Kukhazikika ndi ndondomeko yomveka yodyetsera, masewera - ndizo zomwe amafunikira. Uwu ndiye mtundu wa "Tsiku la Groundhog" omwe amayembekezera kuchokera kwa inu.

Zimachitika kuti mphaka amayesetsa kuluma, amasonyeza makhalidwe oipa chifukwa ndondomeko yanu ya ntchito yasintha. Iwe unkabwera pa seveni, kumudyetsa iye, kusewera. Ndipo tsopano mubwerako 11 koloko. Mphaka wasokonezeka.

Pangani ndondomeko yomveka bwino ya tsiku ndi tsiku. Lolani masewera ndi zakudya zikhale nthawi imodzi. Kudziwiratu kwa zochitikazi kumapangitsa amphaka kukhala otetezeka. Mphaka akamasangalala ndi moyo, safunanso kukhala wosamvera kwambiri.

Phatikizani chinyengo chapadera pazochitika zanu zatsiku ndi tsiku zomwe zimatsimikizira kuti mphaka wanu amakhala ndi tulo tabwino popanda kudzudzula masana. Pafupi ndi nthawi yomwe inu nokha mumapita kukagona, sewerani masewera akunja ndi mphaka, ndiyeno mudyetse bwino. Chiweto chothamanga ndi chokwanira chidzawombera mokoma pabedi, ndipo sichidzakudzutsani pa ola losayenera.

Kusasinthasintha kuyenera kuwonetsanso gawo lanu pophunzitsa chiweto chanu. Ngati mphaka saloledwa patebulo lodyera, ndiye kuti nthawi zonse saloledwa pamenepo. Konzani zopukutira zapulasitiki zomata ndi tepi ya mbali ziwiri. Ndipo onse a m’banjamo aziika patebulo pamene sizikugwiritsidwa ntchito.

Ngati mphaka wanu amangokhalira kulira, nthawi zonse muzisonyeza kuti simukuvomereza khalidwe lotere. Phunzitsani chiweto chanu. Pa nthawi yopuma mu konsati ya mphaka, tiyeni tisangalale. Pang'onopang'ono onjezerani nthawi yomwe mphaka wanu amafunikira kukhala chete kuti alandire chithandizo. Pambuyo pa maphunziro a mwezi umodzi kapena iwiri, mphaka adzachita mosiyana kwambiri.

N'chifukwa chiyani zimatenga nthawi yaitali kuphunzitsa mphaka makhalidwe abwino? Chifukwa amphaka ndi osamala. Ngakhale mutamutenga kuchokera kumalo ogona, kumupatsa chisamaliro ndi chakudya chabwino, musayembekezere kuyamika msanga. Chiweto chimafunika pafupifupi mwezi umodzi kuti chizolowerane ndi nyumba yatsopanoyo ndikulumikizana ndi eni ake atsopano.

Kuti mphaka asakhale ndi zifukwa zosayenera, moyo m'nyumba uyenera kukwaniritsa zosowa zake. Chotsani zovuta zonse zomwe mungathe kuzilamulira.

Choyamba, mphaka m'nyumba ayenera kukhala ndi malo ake otetezeka, ndiko kuti, malo omwe mphaka amatha kugona mwamtendere, kumasuka yekha pamene akufuna. Malo ang'onoang'ono ogona pansi pa bedi sangagwire ntchito. Ndi bwino kukonza zone chitetezo kumene mphaka adzakhala ndi maganizo. Ngati malo oterowo sangapezeke, pangani mwachinyengo. Mutha kukhazikitsa masewera amasewera amphaka amphaka ndikuvomerezana ndi achibale kuti palibe amene adasokoneza chiweto chopuma.

Zimachitika kuti kupsinjika kwa mphaka kumakwiyitsidwa ndi mkangano ndi m'modzi mwa achibale. Mwinamwake mmodzi wa okondedwa anu nthawi zonse amaphwanya malo ake amphaka kapena amamudzudzula? Longosolani banja lanu kuti khalidwe loterolo silingatsogolere ku chirichonse chabwino.

Thandizani mphaka wanu kukhalabe ndi chidwi ndi moyo. Kamodzi pa sabata, sinthani zidole zomwe zimamuzungulira. Mutha kusunga zoseweretsa zomwe chiweto chanu sichikufuna pakali pano mumtsuko wa catnip. Ngati mphaka wanu ndi m'modzi mwa omwe sanyalanyaza catnip, chinyengo choterocho chidzakuthandizani kuonjezera chidwi cha masewerawo. 

Chinthu chofunika kwambiri si kutseka maso anu ku mavuto mu khalidwe la ziweto. Mukangoyamba ntchito yolimbikitsa yokonza khalidwe, zotsatira zake zidzakhala zabwino. Khalani oleza mtima ndikuthandizira mnzanu wamiyendo inayi kukhala bwino. Tikufunirani inu ndi ziweto zanu ubwenzi wolimba komanso kumvetsetsana!