galu wodziletsa

Inde, mwiniwake aliyense amafuna kuti galu wake aphunzire ndi kutsatira malamulo a moyo m'banja, ndiko kuti, kukhala wolangizidwa ndi wotetezeka. Komabe, kwa zaka mazana ambiri, agalu akhala akuleredwa ndi njira zachiwawa zokhazokha, ndipo njira ina iliyonse yakhala ikugwirizana ndi kulolera. Koma kodi chilango ndi chiwawa zimagwirizana? Kodi ndizotheka kupeza galu wodziletsa pogwiritsa ntchito njira zaumunthu pophunzitsa ndi kuphunzitsa?

Ndithudi mungathe! Ndikofunika kudziwa momwe mungachitire bwino.

Chithunzi: pxhere

N’chifukwa chiyani chiwawa pophunzitsa agalu ndi chovulaza?

Mwamwayi, asayansi aphunzira zambiri za psychology ndi khalidwe la agalu m'zaka makumi angapo zapitazi kuposa zaka zikwi zapitazo. Ndipo palibe amene wawerenga zotsatira za kafukufuku amene angakane kuti njira yozikidwa pa chiwawa ndi nkhanza zosavomerezeka pochita ndi zolengedwa zodabwitsazi. Ndipo galu wakhalidwe labwino, wodzudzulidwa akhoza kupezedwa mwa kuyanjana naye mwa njira zaumunthu zokha. Gwirizanani, izi ndizosangalatsa kwambiri kwa galu ndi eni ake (pokhapokha ngati ali ndi malingaliro achisoni, koma ili ndi gawo la psychopathology, lomwe sitidzafufuza pano).

Inde, mu moyo wa galu aliyense payenera kukhala malamulo. Koma amafunikira kuti asinthe moyo wa galuyo, kubweretsa zodziwikiratu mmenemo, osati kumuopseza.

Njira zachiwawa monga kumenya, kugwedeza ndi leash, kupotoza, alpha flips ndi zina zotsalira zakale zoopsa sizingagwiritsidwe ntchito polimbana ndi galu. Izi ndi njira zomwe zimalimbikitsidwabe ndi ena ogwira ntchito agalu omwe alibe chilakolako kapena luso lodziwa njira yosiyana - pambuyo pake, "anthu amadya".

Chiwawa chinalungamitsidwa (ndipo chikupitirizabe kulungamitsidwa) chifukwa chakuti chimathandiza kutsimikizira amene ali “mutu wa paketi.” Komabe, kwenikweni, izo kokha kufooketsa chidaliro galu mwa munthu, komanso zingachititse kubwezera aukali kapena mawonekedwe anaphunzira wopanda thandizo. Lingaliro la kulamulira kwa agalu pa anthu lakhala likuzindikiridwa ngati losavomerezeka, chifukwa linamangidwa pa malingaliro olakwika omwe alibe chochita ndi zenizeni. Koma ngakhale zili choncho, amapitirizabe kuupereka kwa anthu ambiri molimbikira. Ndipo eni ake ambiri amanyadira momwe "amaweta" olamulira. Ngakhale palibe chilichonse chonyadira apa ...

Chithunzi: maxpixel

Kodi mungalere bwanji galu wodziletsa popanda chiwawa?

Agalu SIKUyesa kulamulira kapena kupanga akapolo mitundu ya Homo sapiens. Iwo akungoyesera kuti agwirizane ndi mikhalidwe yomwe eni ake adawapangira iwo. Osacheperanso. Ndipo ntchito ya mwiniwake waluso ndi wodalirika ndikuthandiza chiweto, osati kukulitsa mkhalidwewo ndi nkhanza zawo.

Njira zazikulu zolerera galu wodziletsa:

• Kulengedwa kwa moyo wovomerezeka. 
• Kupanga zinthu kuti vuto lisamawonekere (kuwongolera zochitika). Chifukwa, monga mukudziwa, kupewa ndi njira yabwino kwambiri yochizira.
• Kuphunzitsa makhalidwe abwino kudzera mu mphotho. Sankhani mphotho yoyenera "pano ndi pano" ndikulimbitsa nthawi yoyenera. Mutsimikizireni galu wanu kuti nkwabwino kuchita nanu, ndikuti mgwirizano ndi wosangalatsa komanso wopindulitsa.
• Kuwonjezeka kwapang'onopang'ono mulingo wa zofunikira, mfundo "kuchokera ku zosavuta mpaka zovuta".
• Kunyalanyaza khalidwe lavuto (khalidwe losalimbikitsidwa limazimiririka), mwina kusintha ndi kuphunzira njira yovomerezeka (chifukwa kusonkhezera mwanjira ina kumafuna kukhutira), kapena kugwiritsa ntchito chilango choipa (mwachitsanzo, kuyimitsa masewera kapena kutha kwa nthawi) - kutengera zoyenera kwambiri pazochitika zinazake. Njira zowongolera izi ndizomveka kwa galu, zimawaphunzitsa kupanga chisankho choyenera ndipo sizomwe zimapangitsa kuti zikhale zovuta kwa iwo.

Malamulowa amagwira ntchito kwa galu aliyense, mosasamala kanthu za kukula kwake kapena mtundu wake. Ntchito ya eni ake ndi kuphunzira momwe angagwiritsire ntchito. Ndipo potsirizira pake siyani kuimba mlandu galu chifukwa cha machimo onse a imfa.

Chithunzi: pixabay

Sizovuta monga momwe zingawonekere, chinthu chachikulu ndi chikhumbo ndi ... kudziletsa pang'ono. Ndipotu munthu ndi munthu woganiza bwino. Kotero, mwinamwake muyenera kugwiritsa ntchito malingaliro pomanga maubwenzi ndi bwenzi la miyendo inayi?