Kodi amphaka amakhumudwa?

Amati amphaka amayenda okha ndipo amadzikonda okha. Koma ma purrs achikondi, osachoka pa mawondo a eni ake, amatsutsa izi. Amakhala okondana ndi anthu osachepera agalu, amayesa kuthera mphindi iliyonse pafupi ndi mwiniwake ndipo amakhala achisoni kwambiri akakhala okha. Amphaka oterowo ndi omvera, malingaliro awo makamaka amadalira mwiniwake, ndipo n'zosavuta kuwakhumudwitsa. Koma amphaka odzidalira komanso ooneka ngati odziimira okha amakhumudwa. Mwina safunikira chisamaliro chosalekeza cha banja, koma kuchita kulikonse kosalondola kungawapweteke kwambiri kotero kuti zingatenge nthaŵi yaitali kuti chiwetocho chibwerere!

Mphaka aliyense ndi payekha, monga eni ake. Ndipo aliyense amachita mosiyana ndi kuvulazidwa. Ena amadzipatula mwa iwo okha ndikukhala osagwirizana, amasiya kudalira ndi kupewa eni ake, pamene ena amapanga ndondomeko yobwezera.

Kodi mudamvapo nkhani zakupha kwa amphaka: chisokonezo chokonzedwa kapena madamu osiyidwa pakati pachipinda? Zonse izi ndi zoona. Amphaka amatha "kuvulaza" poyankha chipongwe. Koma zomwe zimawatsogolera - kupsinjika kapena kuzizira - ndi funso lalikulu!

Koma chinthu chimodzi ndi chotsimikizika: amphaka sadzimva kuti ali ndi mlandu. Musamayembekezere kuti ayamba kudandaula ndi khalidwe lake “loipa” ndipo sadzachitanso. M'malo mwake, zochita zonse zomwe mphaka amachita ndi zachibadwa kwa iye. Kulera mofatsa moleza mtima ndi chikondi chanu ndizomwe zingathandize kuthetsa vutoli. 

Zifukwa 6 zapamwamba za kukwiyira ng'ombe:

• Chilango chakuthupi.

Kodi munagwedeza mphaka ndi khosi lanu kapena kuponyera slipper? Tikufulumira kukukhumudwitsani: simudzakwaniritsa chilichonse chabwino. Chilango chakuthupi (kupatulapo kugwedeza kophiphiritsira pamphuno kapena kumenya nyuzipepala pansi) sikungapangitse kuti chiwetocho chikhale bwino. Koma n’zotheka ndithu kuti angayambe kukuopani.

• Kukuwa mokweza.

Amphaka ambiri amaopa phokoso lalikulu. Ndipo ngati mwiniwake wokondedwa akukukalirani, ndiye kuti kupsinjika maganizo kumachoka. Mphaka akhoza kukhumudwa kwambiri pokweza mawu ake, ndipo muyenera kumukakamiza kuti atuluke pansi pa sofa kwa nthawi yayitali.

• Kusowa chidwi.

Kwa amphaka ochezeka ochezeka, kuzizira kwa eni ake ndi tsoka lenileni. Iwo angavutike moona mtima chifukwa chosowa chisamaliro, kusungulumwa, ndi kunyong’onyeka kwambiri. Ngati mwiniwakeyo apitirizabe kunyalanyaza mphaka, iye amasiya kumukonda n’kuyamba kupeŵa kukhala naye.

• Kukoka scruff.

Amphaka (zatchire ndi zapakhomo) nthawi zambiri amagwira ana amphaka ndi khosi: kuwaopseza kuwaphunzitsa makhalidwe, kapena kuwasuntha. Koma ngati mphaka akumva bwino nthawi yomweyo, ndiye kuti mphaka wamkulu kukoka ndi kolala ndi chipongwe chenicheni. Osalakwitsa izi!

• Kusalemekeza malo aumwini.

Si amphaka onse omwe amaweta. Ambiri amangodana ndi kukumbatirana, makamaka kwa mlendo. Kusokoneza kulikonse pa malo a munthu wodyera m'nyumba kungayambitse kukwapula ndi kulumidwa. Ndipo popeza amphaka amapereka zizindikiro zambiri zochenjeza asanaukire, si vuto lawo!

• Kusowa kwa eni ake kwanthawi yayitali.

Pobwerera kunyumba kuchokera ku ulendo, eni ake akuthamangira kukumbatira chiweto chawo, ndipo akukumana nacho ndi mawonekedwe osayanjanitsika! Kapena samakumana konse. Koma zoona zake n'zakuti pakalibe, mphaka ankalakalaka kwambiri moti anakwanitsa kukukwiyitsani kangapo motsatizana ndipo ngakhale kuchoka pang'ono. Amphaka ena amakumana ndi kusowa kwa eni ake kwambiri kotero kuti amataya chilakolako chawo ndikuyamba kudwala.

Momwe mungakhazikitsire mtendere ndi mphaka ngati wakhumudwa? Lamulo lalikulu si kumulanga, osati kuonjezera nkhawa. Ngati mphaka "abwezera" ndi "kusewera zoipa" potsutsa, ndipo munamukalipira chifukwa cha izo, mkwiyo wake udzachuluka. Mumakhala pachiwopsezo chowononga ubale wanu ndi chiweto chanu chokondedwa mosasinthika.

Njira yolondola ndi njira yofatsa, chisamaliro ndi chisamaliro, kuleredwa moleza mtima. Onetsani chiweto chokhumudwa kuti mumamukondabe, muzichita naye zinthu zapadera, sewerani naye. Ngakhale chikhumbo chokwera kwambiri chidzagonja posachedwa, ndipo ubwenzi wanu udzabwezeretsedwa!

Onetsetsani kuti mwapeza zomwe zimakhumudwitsa chiweto chanu ndipo yesetsani kusabwerezanso mtsogolo. Mphaka ndi mdani woopsa, ndipo ndibwino kuti musakumane naye!

Ndiuzeni, mumakangana ndi ma purrs anu? Kodi amakhumudwitsidwa ndi chiyani ndipo mayanjano akuyenda bwanji?