Kodi mphaka amalumikizana ndi eni ake?

Pali lingaliro lodziwika bwino la amphaka omwe "amakhala okha" ndipo alibe chifundo kwa eni ake. Komabe, eni amphaka ambiri sangagwirizane ndi lingaliro ili. Ndipo ndizosatheka kukana kuti amphaka ambiri amakonda anthu omwe amakhala nawo pansi pa denga limodzi. Koma kodi mphaka amagwirizana ndi mwiniwake?

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Choyamba, ndi bwino kusankha chomwe chikugwirizana ndi chikondi komanso kusiyana kwake ndi chikondi.

Chikondi ndi mgwirizano wamalingaliro ndi munthu wina, ndipo amphaka amakhudzidwa, zomwe zikutanthauza kuti amatha kukonda anthu. Koma kugwirizana ndi mwiniwake sikungogwirizana ndi maganizo. Ndilonso lingaliro la mwiniwake ngati maziko achitetezo.

chitetezo maziko - uyu ndi munthu (kapena chinachake) chomwe chinyama chimafuna kuti chikhalebe chogwirizana, kwa iye (chomwe) chimathamangira pamene chikumva chosatetezeka kapena mantha, ndipo chimakwiyitsa kwambiri kupatukana. Kukhala ndi maziko achitetezo kumapatsa chinyama chidaliro ndikuchilimbikitsa kufufuza zinthu zatsopano kapena malo.

Ndipo ngati agalu chitetezo m'munsi mosakayikira mwini (ndipo pokhapo tinganene kuti ubwenzi wapangidwa), kwa mphaka chitetezo m'munsi ndi gawo limene purr amaona zake.

Mosiyana ndi chikondi, chikondi ndi chinthu chimene tingachiyerekezere nacho. Kuti achite izi, akatswiri a zamaganizo apanga mayeso. Poyamba ankagwiritsidwa ntchito kwa ana, koma kenako anayamba kugwiritsidwa ntchito ndi ofufuza nyama.

Nyama yomwe ili m'gulu la mwiniwakeyo ili m'chipinda chosadziwika ndi zoseweretsa. Kenako mlendo akulowa m’chipinda chomwecho. Mwiniwake amatuluka kenako amabwerera (monga mlendo). Ndipo ochita kafukufuku amawona momwe nyamayo imachitira pamaso ndi kusakhalapo kwa mwiniwake ndi / kapena mlendo, komanso momwe amaonera kuyesa kwa mlendoyo kuti agwirizane.

Ndipo pamene mayeserowo anachitidwa ndi amphaka, palibe zizindikiro za chiyanjano kwa mwiniwake zomwe zinapezeka. Mphaka amatha kusewera ndi mwiniwake komanso ndi mlendo, kukhalapo / kusapezeka kwa mwiniwake sikudalira momwe mphaka amayendera molimba mtima malo atsopano.

Komanso, nthawi zina amphaka ankasamalira kwambiri mlendo kusiyana ndi mwiniwake. Izi mwina ndi chifukwa cha zomwe zimalumikizana ndi amphaka: ndikofunikira kuti asinthane fungo akadziwa "chinthu" chatsopano. Ndipo kotero, mwachitsanzo, amphaka nthawi zambiri anayamba kutsutsana ndi mlendo.

Chokhacho ndi chakuti amphaka ena amadya pang'ono pakhomo pamene mwiniwake wachoka. Koma, mwachiwonekere, izi ndi chifukwa chakuti kukhalapo kwa mwiniwake kumawonjezera chinthu cha "malo odziwika" ku malo osadziwika. Komabe, mphaka atazolowera chipindacho, khalidweli linazimiririka.

Kotero mphaka akhoza kukonda mwiniwake, koma amamangiriridwa ku gawolo.

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Mwa njira, pachifukwa ichi, amphaka samavutika ndi kulekanitsidwa nkhawa, ndiko kuti, samavutika pamene mwiniwake wachoka m'nyumba. Nthawi zambiri, mphaka amazindikira kusakhalapo kwa mwiniwake modekha.

Ngati muwona kuti mphaka wanu ali ndi mantha pamene mukufuna kuchoka, izi zikhoza kukhala chizindikiro chachikulu chakuti sali bwino.

Mwinamwake, mwiniwake yekha ndi amene angatsimikizire chitetezo cha chiweto m'gawo lino, ndipo ngati palibe, mwachitsanzo, galu akhoza kuukira mphaka kapena kukhumudwitsa mmodzi wa mamembala. Mulimonsemo, ndikofunikira kudziwa chomwe chimayambitsa kusapeza kwa mphaka ndikuchichotsa.