Galu ndi mwana: malamulo a moyo

 Aliyense amene ali ndi mwayi wokulira ndi galu amavomereza kuti izi ndi zodabwitsa. Muli ndi bwenzi lodalirika komanso bwenzi lanu lamasewera, bwenzi loyendako komanso munthu womuuza zakukhosi. Ndipo ochepa angatsutse mfundo yakuti kulankhulana pakati pa mwana ndi galu kuyenera kukhala, choyamba, kotetezeka. Pokhapokha ngati izi zidzabweretsa chisangalalo kwa onse omwe atenga nawo mbali. Ndi mphamvu yanu kuchita chilichonse chotheka kuti ana ndi ziweto zikhale mabwenzi osalekanitsa.

Momwe mungasankhire galu wa banja lomwe lili ndi ana

Ndikofunika kuti galu agwirizane ndi moyo wanu. Ngati mumadana ndi kunyong'onyeka, pezani galu wokangalika. Koma bwenzi la miyendo inayi silingathe kukupangani kukhala wothamanga ngati inu ndi banja lanu mumakonda kwambiri kuposa china chilichonse kukhala ndi nthawi yowonera TV. Galu ayenera kukhala wokhoza kulekerera kusapeza bwino polankhulana ndi ana, modekha amazindikira phokoso ndi kukhululukira. Ndikofunikira kwambiri kutha kukhazikika mtima mwachangu ndikudzilamulira. Ndipo, ndithudi, galu “kwa mwana” ayenera kukonda anthu. 

Ngati mukupeza kagalu, sankhani imodzi yomwe imayenda molunjika kwa inu, koma yosaluma kapena kuchita zachiwawa kwambiri.

 Mukhozanso kutenga galu wamkulu, koma ngati mukudziwa kale ake ndi otsimikiza kuti ankakhala ndi ana ndi kuwakonda. Musaiwale kuti galu, choyamba, ntchito. Lassie, yemwe amadzibweretsera yekha ndipo nthawi yomweyo ndi wodzichepetsa kwathunthu, ndipo nthawi yomweyo akhoza kukupulumutsani ku mtengo wa nanny, amapezeka m'mafilimu okha. Ndipo moyo, tsoka, uli kutali ndi zochitika zaku Hollywood.

Nthawi yopeza galu m'banja lomwe lili ndi ana

Ndi bwino kudikirira mpaka mwanayo atakwanitsa zaka 4 kapena 5. Ana aang'ono amakhala opupuluma ndipo sangathe kuchita bwino ndi galu. Komanso, kulera chiweto tingakuyerekezere ndi kulera mwana wina. Kodi mwakonzeka kukhala ndi mapasa? 

Galu m'banja lomwe lili ndi ana: zodzitetezera

1. Osasiya (konse!) Kusiya galu wanu yekha ndi mwana wamng'ono. Ngakhale chiweto chodalirika kwambiri chidzakana ngati mwanayo asankha kuyeza kuya kwa khutu la galu ndi pensulo. Khalani aubweya ndi mwana pamaso kapena muziwalekanitsa wina ndi mzake.
2. Onetsetsani momwe galu wanu akumvera ndi kuphunzitsa mwana wanu kumvetsetsa "chinenero cha thupi" la nyamayo. Galu nthawi zonse amachenjeza kuti sakumasuka. Ngati watopa ndi zizindikiro zonse zomwe zilipo, chotsalira ndikungolira kapena kuluma. Musamayembekezere kuti chiweto chanu chidzalekerera zinthu zomwe simukanafuna. Ngakhale zitatero, ndi bwino kukhala otetezeka.
3. Ngati galu akufuna kuchoka kwa mwanayo, mpatseni mwayi. Perekani ubweya wanu malo otetezeka.
4. Letsani ana kusokoneza chiweto pamene akudya ndi kugona.
5. Phunzitsani mwana wanu mwa chitsanzo. Osachitira galu monyanyira ndipo musalole kuti mwanayo amumenye mnzake wamiyendo inayi, kumunyoza kapena kukwiyitsa mwanjira ina iliyonse.
6. Muziuza ana anu udindo wosamalira chiweto. Mutha kupanga ndandanda - kuti imveke bwino. Ngakhale ana ang'onoang'ono angathandize kudyetsa galu kapena kudzaza mbale ndi madzi. Ndipo mwana wamkulu angathenso kutenga nawo mbali pophunzitsa bwenzi la miyendo inayi - mwachitsanzo, kumuphunzitsa zamatsenga zoseketsa.