Kodi kulamulira agalu ndi chiyani?

Ndithudi mudamvapo kangapo kuchokera kwa eni ake: "Galu wanga ndi wamkulu!" Nthawi zina izi zimanenedwa ndi kunyada, nthawi zina - kulungamitsa khalidwe "loipa" la galu kapena njira zowawa za maphunziro - amati, ndi "wolamulira" palibe njira ina. Kodi ichi ndi chilombo choopsa chamtundu wanji - "kulamulira" mwa agalu ndipo pali agalu "olamulira"?

Chithunzi: www.pxhere.com

Khalidwe la agalu ndi kulamulira

Khalidwe la galu aliyense monga membala wa mitundu yake limaphatikizapo zigawo zingapo, kuphatikizapo chikhalidwe cha anthu. Makhalidwe a chikhalidwe cha anthu, nawonso, ndi osiyana kwambiri ndipo amaphatikizapo, mwachitsanzo, khalidwe la makolo, khanda (mwana), chiyanjano (chochezeka), khalidwe laukali (kapena agonistic), ndi zina zotero.

Khalidwe la agalu aukali (mwaukali) limaphatikizapo kuwopseza (njira yakuthwa, kuyang'ana molunjika, kaimidwe kowopseza, kulira, kuuwa) ndi kuwukira (kuluma, ndi zina zotero.) Mbali ina ya khalidwe laukali ndi khalidwe logonjera, kuphatikizapo zizindikiro za chiyanjano, kubwerera kumbuyo kugonjera, kusonyeza zinthu za khalidwe la khanda.

Chithunzi: pixabay

Khalidwe logonjera ndilofunika, chifukwa ngati nyama zimasonyeza nthawi zonse kuopseza ndi kumenyana wina ndi mzake, zimangofa ngati zamoyo: pomenyana, osati wotayika yekhayo amene amavutika, komanso wopambana. Chifukwa chake, kuchokera kumalingaliro a chisinthiko, ndi kopindulitsa kwambiri kuti magulu onse osagwirizana akonze zinthu popanda kuukira, mothandizidwa ndi miyambo.  

Ndi khalidwe la agonistic (mwaukali) lomwe limagwirizanitsidwa ndi kulamulira kwa agalu.

Kodi kulamulira kwa agalu ndi chiyani (osati kokha)?

Kulamulira mwa agalu, monga nyama ina iliyonse, ndi mawonekedwe (basi imodzi mwa mafomu) chikhalidwe cha chikhalidwe chomwe chiweto chachikulu chimakhala ndi udindo wapamwamba. Izi zimatanthauzidwa mophweka: wolamulira angapangitse nyama yocheperapo (yokhala ndi malo otsika) kusiya kuchita zomwe ikuchita, kapena kusintha khalidwe lake.

Ndiko kuti, n'kosatheka kudziwa kuti galu ndi wamkulu ngati palibe amene angasonyeze khalidwe la kugonjera. Kulamulira n'kosatheka popanda kugonjera kwa munthu wina wamoyo.

Ndikofunika kukumbukira kuti kulamulira si khalidwe lokhazikika la nyama inayake, choncho sizolondola kunena kuti "galu ndi wamkulu". Ulamuliro ndi mawonekedwe osinthika a ubale pakati pa mamembala angapo amtundu womwewo (kapena mitundu yosiyana).

Ndiko kuti, muzochitika zina, galu wina akhoza kukhala wamkulu pakati pa achibale enieni, ndipo nthawi zina (kapena kampani ina), ndi wolamulira. Palibe "zolamulira" zanyama, mwachitsanzo, chifukwa chobadwa, "zowonongedwa" kuti zikwaniritse "ntchito" iyi kwa moyo wawo wonse muzochitika zilizonse.

Komabe, pali mikhalidwe yobadwa nayo komanso zokumana nazo pamoyo zomwe zimapatsa chiweto china mwayi wocheperako wolamulira kampani inayake. Koma chofunika kwambiri - zochitika za moyo kapena makhalidwe obadwa nawo - asayansi sanadziwebe. N'zotheka kuti kuphatikiza kwa zonsezi n'kofunika.

Ngati galu akuwonetsa kugonjera, kupeŵa kapena kubwereranso, kapena mayankho akhanda, ndiye kuti panopa akudziwa kuti "interlocutor" (kaya ndi munthu kapena galu wina) ali ndi udindo wapamwamba. Komabe, ndikofunikira kudziwa ndikumvetsetsa zizindikiro izi, chifukwa anthu, mwatsoka, nthawi zambiri "amasiya makutu awo" ndipo potero, kukulitsa nkhanza zawo kwa galu (mwachitsanzo, mwa chilango chopambanitsa), kuchititsa chiweto kubwezera. (kungosimidwa) , ndiyeno amamutcha kuti "wolamulira" ndikudzipatsa okha "kuwala kobiriwira" chifukwa cha njira zowawa kwambiri komanso zopanda chilungamo za "kuwongolera", zomwe nthawi zambiri zimachulukitsa mavuto.