N'chifukwa chiyani anthu amapeza agalu?

Ndizokayikitsa kuti zitheka kuwerengera kuchuluka kwa agalu padziko lonse lapansi omwe amakhala m'mabanja ngati ziweto. Komabe, kafukufuku akusonyeza kuti chiwerengero cha agalu chikuwonjezeka chaka ndi chaka. Pa nthawi yomweyi, kusamalira zinyama kumakhudzana ndi mavuto ambiri. N'chifukwa chiyani anthu amapeza agalu?

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Galu monga gawo la dongosolo la banja

Mu psychology, pali njira yotchedwa "systemic family therapy". Otsatira malangizowa amawona banja ngati dongosolo, aliyense yemwe ali ndi gawo lake, akuchita ntchito zina kuti athetse mavuto ofunikira. Komanso, dongosolo lililonse la banja limathetsa mavuto awiri:

1. Development.
2. Kuteteza kukhazikika (homeostasis).

Ngati chimodzi mwazinthu zadongosolo chikusintha, dongosolo lonselo limasintha. Ndipo izi ndizosapeŵeka, chifukwa zinthu zonse za dongosolo (abale) nthawi zonse zimagwirizana wina ndi mzake komanso ndi dziko lakunja, ngakhale sizikuzindikira nthawi zonse.

Agalu ndi chiyani, mukufunsa? Chowonadi ndi chakuti agalu nawonso ndi mbali zonse za dongosolo la banja, kaya timakonda kapena ayi.

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Kodi galu ali ndi udindo wotani m’banja?

Anna Varga, Systemic Family Therapist, amatchula ntchito zitatu zomwe agalu amatha kuchita m'mabanja:

1. Kusintha. Mwachitsanzo, ana amakula, ndipo makolo amatenga kagalu kuti azimusamalira limodzi.
2. Kupatukana kwa wachinyamata. Galu nthawi zina amathandiza wachinyamata kuti "ateteze" ufulu wodziimira, ubale wapadera umapangidwa nawo, womwe ukhoza kukhala chitsanzo cha banja lake lamtsogolo.
3. Wotenga nawo mbali pa "triangle" (triangulation). Mwachitsanzo, ngati mkangano uyamba pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi wake, amapangitsa kuti galu akhale ndi "kulowa pakati" ndi / kapena nkhani zotetezeka kuti akambirane, komanso kukhazikitsa mtunda wovomerezeka, zomwe zimachepetsa mikangano. banja.

Ndicho chifukwa chake maonekedwe a galu m'banja sali mwangozi. Nthawi zambiri mwana wagalu kapena galu wamkulu amawonekera panthawi yomwe banja liri m'mavuto ndipo kukhazikika kumafunika. Ndipo kuti timvetse zomwe galu amachita m'banja, ndikofunika kudziwa zomwe zisanachitike.

N’zoona kuti anthu ena akhoza kutenga maudindo onsewa. Mwachitsanzo, ana nthawi zambiri amakopeka ndi "makona atatu". Koma anthu akadali zolengedwa zovuta kuzilamulira. Galu ndi cholengedwa chomwe moyo wake umayendetsedwa kwathunthu ndi mwiniwake.

Udindo wa galu m'banja ukhoza kusintha pakapita nthawi - zimatengera siteji ya chitukuko cha banja komanso ubale wa mamembala ake.