N'chifukwa chiyani galu samva chikondi?

Mwayi, mutakhala ndi galu, mumaganizira za tsogolo lomwe inu ndi mwana wanu mumathera nthawi yochuluka pamodzi momwe mungathere. Kaya kunali kuthamangitsa mipira m'paki kapena kukumbatirana pampando, mumaganiza kuti mungakhale anzanu apamtima. Koma m'malo mwake, mukudabwa chifukwa chake galu wanu samakukondani, ndikuyesera kudziwa yemwe ali vuto: mwa inu kapena mwa iye.

Kodi agalu sakuyenera kukhala bwenzi lapamtima la munthu? Ndipo ngati ndi choncho, n’chifukwa chiyani galu wanu sakufuna kukhala pafupi nanu?

N’chifukwa chiyani agalu ena sakonda?

Ngati mukuganiza kuti galu wanu samakukondani, musatengere nokha. Mwinamwake, siziri za inu konse. Pali zifukwa zambiri zomwe nyama sizisonyeza chikondi. Choyamba, ngati galuyo ankakhala kwinakwake, mwiniwake wakale angakhale atamuchitira nkhanza - kapena kuipitsitsa, adamuchitira nkhanza. Ngati ndi choncho, angakhale ndi nkhani zokhulupirira kapenanso kuopa anthu.

Kuphatikiza apo, monga anthu ena, chiweto chimatha kusangalala ndi malo akeawo. Sikuti aliyense amakonda kukhudzana kwambiri. Onse nyama ndi anthu ali ndi malingaliro osiyana pa kukumbatirana, kuyandikana mwakuthupi, ndi kukumbatirana. Ndipo kukumbatirana kwa agalu kumasiyanasiyana malinga ndi ziweto.

Zinyama zimathanso kudana ndi aliyense amene alowa m’gawo lawo, kapena kuona wachibale wina ngati mnzake wapamtima. Ngati galuyo asonyeza chikondi kwa achibale ena kapena ngati mwangouzidwa kumene, zingatenge nthawi kuti ayambe kukukondani.

Pomaliza, chiwetocho chingangosonyeza chikondi chake kwa inu m’njira zina. Ngakhale mutakhala kuti mukuyembekezera kukumbatirana, pali zizindikiro zina zosonyeza kuti amakukondani. Muyenera kuyang'ana.

Agalu amasonyeza chikondi chawo m’njira zambiri.

Ndizokhumudwitsa kupeza kuti inu ndi galu wanu mumalankhula zilankhulo zosiyanasiyana zachikondi. Komabe, zimenezi sizikutanthauza kuti sangathe kukusonyezani mmene amakukonderani.

Ziweto zimayesetsa kukondweretsa eni ake okondedwa, ndipo aliyense wa iwo ndi payekha. Yang'anani momwe galu amakupezerani chidwi. Kungakhale chinthu chophweka monga kuthamangitsa mpira kapena ndodo. Mukamasewera limodzi, amaoneka ngati akunena kuti: “Ndakubweretserani mpira umenewu, womwe uli ndi malovu ndi dothi, monga mphatso, chifukwa ndimakuganizirani. Ngati mukuthamanga ndi chiweto chanu, samalani momwe amayendera ndi inu. Ngati mumulola, mwina adzakupezani kuyambira pachiyambi, koma kuphunzitsidwa kwake ndi kufunitsitsa kwake kukukondweretsani ndi njira ina yosonyezera kuti amakukondani.

Palinso zizindikiro zina zambiri zosonyeza chikondi. Kodi mumafika kunyumba kuchokera kuntchito ndikuwona galu wanu akuyang'ana pawindo ndikudikirira kuti mulowe pakhomo? Kodi amakubweretserani chidole kapena chakudya kuti agawane nanu mukamaseweretsa? Ngakhale galu wanu sangakonde kugona pamiyendo yanu, angakhale akuyesera kukuwonetsani momwe aliri wokondwa kukhala nanu pafupi - ingoyang'anani zizindikiro.

Pa Kufunika Kodziwa Khalidwe la Galu

Si agalu onse omwe ali okondana, koma ngati galu wanu anali wodekha ndipo tsopano sali, tengani ngati chizindikiro kuti chinachake chikhoza kukhala cholakwika. Kusintha kwakukulu kulikonse mu khalidwe kapena zochita za nyama kungafunike kupita kwa veterinarian kuti atsimikizire kuti palibe mavuto ena monga matenda kapena kuvulala.

Pomaliza, ngati mukufuna kukumbatirana ndi chiweto chanu pafupipafupi, muyenera kumuphunzitsa kuti azikonda kwambiri. Khalani ndi zolinga zokwanila malinga ndi umunthu wake. Mutha kumuphunzitsa "zapamwamba-zisanu" kapena kumutamanda ndi chithandizo chathanzi nthawi iliyonse akakulolani kuti mumenye mutu wake kwakanthawi kochepa. Koma musalole kuti chakudya chikhale gwero lanu lalikulu la chikondi, popeza mudzamuphunzitsa zizoloŵezi zoipa, ndipo choipitsitsacho, kudya mopambanitsa kungayambitse kunenepa kwambiri kapena kunenepa kwambiri.

Kumbukirani kuti chilimbikitso chabwino ndicho mfungulo ya chipambano. Mukamalimbikitsa galu wanu kwambiri, adzasonyezanso chikondi - mkati mwa malire a umunthu wake.