Kodi mungaletse bwanji mphaka kuluma?

Komabe, kuti muthane ndi vuto laukali, muyenera kumvetsetsa zomwe zimayambitsa. Chinthu choyamba choletsa ndi ululu umene mphaka angakhale akukumana nawo. Ngati muwona kuti akumva ululu, tengani chiweto chanu kwa dokotala. 

Ngati mphaka ali wathanzi, ndiye kuti muyenera kukhala oleza mtima - njira yophunzitsiranso sidzakhala yofulumira.

Zoyambitsa mphaka nkhanza

Magwero a vutoli akhoza kukhala osiyana:

1. Zowopsa Ngati pali chinthu chomwe chimalepheretsa mphaka kukhala wotetezeka, amayesa kudziteteza. Kuchotsa chinthu ichi ndikokwanira kubwezeretsa maganizo a nyama.

2. Kuwukiranso. Nthawi zina nyama imaona pa zenera munthu amene angapikisane naye ( mphaka wina kapena mphaka ) n’kumamvetsera kuti amenyane. Ngati wopikisana naye sanafikidwe, ndiye kuti zikhadabo zimatha kuboola mwiniwake. Ndikoyenera kutenga malingaliro afilosofi ku zotsatira zachibadwa zachibadwa ndikungophimba mazenera, sungani mphaka kwa iwo. Eni ena amagwiritsa ntchito zopopera zoziziritsa kukhosi zopangidwira amphaka.

3. Maphunziro Oipa. Kusewera ndi mphaka, kumulola "kuukira" mkono kapena mwendo wake, ndizosangalatsa. Koma ndi bwino kusiya masewera oterowo pamene mano a mkaka wa mwana wa mphaka sanayambe kusintha kukhala osatha.

4. Zovuta za socialization. Nthawi zambiri amawonekera mwa makanda omwe poyamba adakula opanda munthu ndipo adakhala m'nyumba ya mumzinda kapena m'nyumba yaumwini pambuyo pa mwezi ndi theka mpaka miyezi iwiri. Amphaka oterewa samamvetsetsa momwe angalankhulire ndi anthu, amaganiza kuti munthu ndi mphaka yemweyo ndipo mutha kusewera naye molingana: yambani masewera olimbana nawo. Komanso, mwana wa mphaka amatha kuona kuti munthu akhoza kumuopseza, choncho amaluma pofuna chitetezo. Ndiye khalidwe loipa limakonzedwa, makamaka ngati mwiniwake alilimbikitsa, ndipo zimakhala zovuta kulimbana ndi chizolowezi choipacho.

5. Kukhumudwitsidwa. Kumayambiriro kwambiri kuyamwa mwana wa mphaka ku mkaka wa mayi nthawi zina kumabweretsa kuphwanya psycho-maganizo thanzi.

6. Nsanje. Mphaka akhoza kuchitira nsanje ziweto zina ndikuchotsa zoipa kwa eni ake. Samalani mmene akumvera mumtima mwake.

Zoyenera kuchita?

Ngakhale kuti mlandu uliwonse ndi wosiyana, pali malingaliro ambiri omwe ali ndi njira zinayi.

Choyamba muyenera kuthetsa chizolowezi chosewera ndi mphaka ndi manja ndi mapazi anu nokha, ndipo achibale ndi alendo ayeneranso kuletsedwa kuchita izi. Mutha kusewera ndi zidole zapadera, ngati n'kotheka kumangirira chingwe. Pochita izi, ndikofunikira kupanga zopinga kuti mutenthetse chibadwa cha nyama. Pambuyo pa masewera, kuchitira mphaka, kukonza zotsatira za maphunziro.

Ngati mphaka waluma mwiniwake, ndiye kuti ayenera kuzizira, kusiya kusuntha.

Ndipo ngati zikuyenda bwino, muyenera kusuntha dzanja lanu molunjika pakamwa pa mphaka. Izi zidzaphwanya khalidwe la wozunzidwa, yemwe akufuna kuthawa. Apo ayi, mphaka adzaluma kwambiri. Ndi bwinonso kukhala ndi chinachake chimene mungapangirepo phokoso nthawi iliyonse pakaluma.

Pamene magawo atatu oyambirira adziwa bwino, posewera ndi mphaka, yang'anani pakamwa pake ndikuchitapo kanthu. Muyenera kuchita phokoso nthawi iliyonse mukawona kuti mphaka wakonzeka kukulumani. Zonsezi zidzathandiza kuti amphaka asiyane ndi chizolowezi choluma.  

23 2017 Juni

Zosinthidwa: Disembala 21, 2017